I know a scorpio, and she and I don't get along. I've already told her that I don't like her. We have a thirty-minute time limit every year as to how long I can stand her before I wanna stick my fist down her throat. (Our cancer friend feels the same way, as does the virgo, whom I don't even like anymore.) Maybe she thought I was joking...? I don't get it. She's still trying to talk to me, and I don't really wanna hurt her feelings if she's making such an effort, but the fact remains, she lied and cheated and screwed me over for no reason and the fact that she came within a centimeter of getting her @ss whooped and managed to escape unscathed bothers me. If I'm in the same room with her for say, 31 minutes, I'll immediately have thoughts about wrapping my hands around her neck and watching her die...of course, my conscience would never allow me to fulfill such a horrendous thought. I am a christian, after all. But it's unfinished business, y'know? How do I get her to take the hint?
2006-07-24 21:11:57 · 7 answers · asked by eyikoluvsandy 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Without me bashing her in the head with a baseball bat, I mean...
2006-07-24 21:15:08 · update #1
Oh, I'm willing to do it, it's just that I've been lectured several times about my "whip-tongued, heart-rending confrontations," and I just wanted to make sure I was on the right track, lest I bench my conscience and rip her apart, and then find out she was being held at gunpoint or something (sympathetic theory complements of the cancer and the virgo). So that when I tell them I don't care, I can go ahead and shoot down every feeble opposing argument they bring up. I like to cover all the bases, y'know...?
2006-07-24 21:30:58 · update #2
Not the choking, just the confrontation.
2006-07-24 21:35:37 · update #3
Honey I feel for you! You're describing someone I was friends with for more years than I care to count. She was gross, crude, annoying, inconsiderate, self-absorbed, basically dumb and ignorant, and grated on me like fingernails on a chalkboard. And yes, she's a Scorpio. Had about 1000 affairs and couldn't understand why her husband objected to her running around.
If I got fed up with her and told her I couldn't stand her any more, she'd come back with dozens of questions about why I didn't like her and what I thought of her personality, etc.
Scorpios are persistent and getting her out of my life was like trying to flick a booger off my thumb. But I did it a couple of years ago. She gave me the solution, telling me about someone she used to be friends with who mysteriously stopped returning her calls. Luckily, we lived hundreds of miles apart at this point, so I didn't have to worry about running into her. Once she went back home from her last unwelcome, annoying visit, I simply stopped taking her calls. She left threatening messages and sent me nasty notes, but by some miracle, she got the message finally and I've been blissfully free of her for about a year and a half. My only regret is that I wasted so much of my precious lifespan tolerating her. Don't make the same mistake. I wish you luck!!
2006-07-25 15:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Easy send her a copy of this question. She should get the hint. If not then, Whoop her *** onto the ground. Forget religion and get down to the dirty part of things. Sometimes breaking the rules is the only way to get things done right.
2006-07-24 21:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Scorpios are a "my way or the highway" kind of people. Sagittarians don't appreciate or like that. Just be straight forward with her - no more hints. A true scorpio will want the friendship to end on her terms - don't let it happen!
2006-07-24 21:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by Teacher M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!!! that's crazy man....look you gonna have to bring up the crap that she did even if it isn't your style . Let her know that that crap didn't rock with you and frankly you don't trust her nor do you want to associate yourself with her. I know that feeling all to well........but for me it's 15min. Then again as a christian you have to ask God to forgive you and to release you from that anger...then after that i hate to say it you have to go forgive her. Thats the only way i know for you not to wrap your hands around her throat. let her know then walk away from it. you dont have to be friends but if she says hi be respectful about it and say hi back and then move on.
2006-07-25 11:48:07 · answer #4 · answered by Latoya W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Sagittarius too and I don't get along very well with Scorpios. But I still don't know why they seem to like me...It's strange, I know. Try to ignore her...
2006-07-24 21:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by me-sama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her a note...saying what you have said in your question. That should do it.
2006-07-24 21:16:18 · answer #6 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pickle me onion
tell her that
2006-07-24 21:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋