Four years ago I had a relationship with a guy at work. We had both just seperated from our spouses and were both hurt and bitter. It started out playing around and flirting and turned sexual. I ended up falling for him. Hard. We would see each other for a while and one of us would end up breaking it off. This went on for almost two years. Problem is, he is also the engineer over my machine. He can influence my job, ect. It ended badly three years ago. I ended it and he caused problems for me. I went to upper management and asked them to have him leave me alone. I went on another shift, And it worked for a while. Seven months ago he saw me at work and then started to call me at home. At first it was work related although he should not have been calling me at home. Then came the I've changed, ect. I thought we had become friends maybe something more. Then he came right out and asked about sex. I blessed him out. Why would a guy take this kind of chance knowing he could lose his job?
2006-07-24 21:10:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Unfortunately it sounds like this guy is still thinking with the little head. Why would he do it? Either: a) he doesn't care about the consequences; b) he doesn't understand the consequences; or c) he doesn't believe there ARE any consequences.
Just a thought: did you go to management or human resources? It will make a difference as to which one you go to. HR has to deal with it. Management should but often times won't. Sad but true.
Your situation lends more credence to my motto: don't get your bread and your meat at the same store. Translation: I have never and won't date anyone I work with. Period. Too much at stake.
I am truly sorry for your dilemma. I hope this helps. Good luck.
2006-07-24 21:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by Lonnie P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And now you know why it's NEVER a wise idea to get cozy in bed with co-workers. He takes this chance because YOU can LOSE your job too.
My advice: shop around for a comparable DIFFERENT job--away from this creep.....and keep well the lesson you learned.
2006-07-25 04:18:12 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys take chances for sex even it means he may lose his family, wife.and reputation. Sex has such great power over them.
2006-07-25 04:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never date co-workers.
2006-07-25 04:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This shows clearly he want ONLY sex from u.
2006-07-25 05:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by john_0502000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Don't get your honey where you make your money" has always been a rule I live by.
2006-07-25 04:13:08 · answer #6 · answered by Gurungus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Ol horn dogs only have ONE thing on their minds........
2006-07-25 04:14:38 · answer #7 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He fell for you..or he's horny..
2006-07-25 04:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋