I have a friend that I love so much and I drop her every evening after work at her place. Yesterday when I dropped her, she just cried so hard. She is the kind of a person that says her mind. But yesterday she just criend and I didnt know what to do. I just held her till she stopped. Then she said thanx and left. I am meeting her in 2 and half hours and i dont know what to do. Should i ask her what is wrong or should I wait for her to say something? I really dont know what to do. She is a very lovely friend. I had asked my wife and she said she will tell me in due time if she wants. But I can wait, I am worried about her. A lot of youths here have been commiting suicide and murder (passion killings).
2006-07-24 20:57:00 · 4 answers · asked by tomwaterboy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Thanks Kicky, Jenni,Yankeefan36 and even you poorboychristian. I managed to see my friend and it turned out all good. She’s had a good job offer about 900km from where we are now. And she has never leaved any place in her life. She needs the job but she is worried she might come to loose touch with us. But that is not a big deal now; we’ve come up with something. We just assured her that once in two months we will visit her. She is quite ok with that (we, my wife and I, keep our word). After all she will be staying in a very nice location. (Maun: it’s a tourism attraction, Botswana)
2006-07-26 05:20:29 · update #1
first of all being a friend means being caring. and u r so caring so i think u should simply ask her what was wrong with her. if u felt she starts to be bothered believe me she will tell u later but dont push on her so much.
dont worry about ur friend, she's fine. it could be anything but maybe not a big deal
2006-07-24 21:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would meet her and not mention it yet. In a week or so, just ask if everything is now OK because you were concerned when she started crying last week. If she opens up then good, if not, just let her know you are ready to listen whenever.
2006-07-24 21:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe just give her the option of telling you. Just ask her when you see her if she would like to tell you why she cried yesterday. Just tell her your worried about her because you have never seen her so upset and you'd like to try to help her. But it's fine if she doesn't feel comfortable telling you and that you will respect her privacy.
2006-07-24 21:07:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jenni 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you go out and meet your friend. You better take your wife with you. Cause things can happen.
2006-07-24 21:29:12 · answer #4 · answered by poorboychristian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋