2006-07-24 20:52:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
love then arrange afterwards
2006-07-24 20:55:09 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arranged marriages work only cause both of them compromise on lots of things, thinking that it's not use of trying to change the partner and you should accept him/her as they are. Even if you don't like them, your parents did and you start thinking "well, maybe they are good, who knows? there's no way out, so what's left for me is just to try to know this person and have a peaceful marriage". I prefer Love Marriages, those people are really the happiest people in the whole world because they live to make each other happy and they put the partner's happiness above their own. Arrange marriage is based on duty and all actions are duty's consequences, it's not love the one that pushes them to act one way or the other.
2006-07-25 03:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by DreamGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will say you have to know the person first, before loving them, so that means you can love the other person even if it has been Arranged, Afterwards. I will say love cause nothing is stronger than love, it can happen in an arranged marriage or unarranged marriege, whenever love is, its a good one.
2006-07-25 04:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by DJ014 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arranged. Most love marriages end in divorce. So if you figure you're going to get divorced, you may as well get a divorce from something you didn't really want/choose in the first place.
2006-07-25 03:55:40 · answer #4 · answered by practical thinking 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love marriage and arrange marriage both is good in love and arrange marriage understanding is more importent
2006-07-26 08:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arranged marriages rarely ever work. The more famous ones usually are a facade for the public to see, where the spouses discreetly have mistresses or lovers (either gay or straight ones).
Marriages founded on true love....now smart money's on them going the distance.
2006-07-25 04:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course Love, real love. Your life will be miserable if your marriage is arranged.
2006-07-25 03:59:21 · answer #7 · answered by mrs. t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is my own experience. Inform you parents about the guy/gal whom you love. Meet his /her parents & get your love marriage converted to arranged marriage. Best of both.
2006-07-25 03:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arranged marriages, they usually last you never hear of people that have arranged marriages getting divorce, and it depends on what religion you are.
2006-07-25 04:20:13 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie1995 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for a successfull mariage love is important and for a successful marriage parents should be involved so i would go for a love *** arrange marriage
2006-07-25 03:56:01 · answer #10 · answered by aks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋