She is comming tommorrow!!!!!....And I really think she hates me ...I saw her 4 years ago...and she was at my party she was the only one that didn't sing happy birthday to me...also she thinks that I stole something really shitty....PLZ...help im stressing...really bad...and I dont something to make her enjoy me around....
2006-07-24 20:48:55 · 18 answers · asked by ***~$w33t L!lL N@t!v3~~** 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you have to do kinda of going to a friends place or a kinda going to a relatives place to stay a kinda few days or months just to kinda prevent heart attacks,to her or to you.
2006-07-24 20:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by archiemedes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her a card saying you are sorry for any bad behavior. Be honest. She doesn't hate you, it was probably the situation that was awkward. Sit down and have a heart to heart talk with her and get to know each other. Have a positive out look so you get plenty of rest so you have a lovely visit. Treat her like you would anyone else you know, she is the same as all of us, human.
Stay positive, all the worry in the world isn't going to change what will happen so get some rest
2006-07-25 03:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you didn't steal something you didn't. tell her that you would like to not have the tension between you. You would like to have the relationship better. Explain to her about whatever you think she thinks you stole. This is probably the only thing you can do. The more you stress, the harder it will be for you. Don't let her do that to you. You need to be able to enjoy your time with your father. Just remember, you may not be able to change her mind, but at least you got out how you feel. Have a good time with your dad. good luck. Blesses Be.
2006-07-25 03:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by singitoutloudandclear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know how old are you, but from your question what I can guess is you must be still a dependent on your father and you are with out your real mother. The new wife of your father has hurt you by not participating in the singing during your Birthday celebration. You can not have a choice in whom your father has accepted as his wife. What you can not cure, endure. You have to endear her by your behavior which must combine respect and love. If you can not love, at least pretend that you love. That will please her and save your father of botheration of living with a new woman and a grown up daughter from his earlier wife.
2006-07-25 04:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get her a card that says you are sincerely sorry and give her some flowers. In the card I recommend you write something along the lines of
Dear ____,
I am sorry we got off on the wrong foot. I want to say that I hope you will forgive me for any inconvience or trouble that I may have caused in the past. Please think of it as a childish mistake and forgive me. I truly hope that we can improve our relationship and I hope that we can get along.
Sincerely,
________
Once you do that, just try to be polite afterwards until she leaves...or at least for a while so ...this way you guys can be civil.
2006-07-25 03:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by Strawberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is mature and kind, she'll forgive you and say sorry too.
Apologize first, then ask her if you guys can just start over and forget whatever happened in the past. You will see it in her eyes if she wants to do that or not.
Does your dad take her side or yours or none? He needs to help you two work it out, so apologize to her in front of him and see what he says. I hope he helps and doesn't make it worse!
Good Luck, sweetie. I think you'll be okay if she is a nice person. I hope so.
: )
2006-07-25 04:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by Mary* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is treat others as you would have them treat you. Even if they are biotches. That's really the best thing to do, and it makes you feel better in the end, rather than being in a "I hate you more contest with the person" or avoiding them.
2006-07-25 03:54:27 · answer #7 · answered by Carmen C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she gets there have a cake ready for her and sing her Happy Birthday then give her a really shitty present.
2006-07-25 03:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be water under the bridge. Don't fret too much. Just play it casual and when you can get some free time alone with her, let her know that you were sorry about whatever. If she's mature enough, she should accept it.
2006-07-25 03:51:54 · answer #9 · answered by low1sk8er 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you think your's dad's wife as your mother. Then try to imagine your mother is in front of you, every time when you meet her. Your whole stress will go.
2006-07-25 03:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋