I finally came out of my shell and started being myself and everyone hates me. Why?
2006-07-24 20:00:22 · 37 answers · asked by frankiegirl1122 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Frankie, I don't hate you. If you need to talk to someone, email me.
2006-07-24 20:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by The Apple Chick 7 · 46⤊ 7⤋
Saying everyone hates you is wrong. You hate you for that. Focus on the real problem, the one that does and let it go. Then focus on the many, many that don't hate you.
If you change people need some time to get used to the new you. You are honest, expect others to do the same. That's not hate that's respect.
2006-07-24 20:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by Puppy Zwolle 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
All you have to do is just to get rid of the thought " everybody hates me" and start life with a new attitude... You'll never be able to make friends of build good relationships as long as you think this way because your unconcious mind drives you the wrong way.. It's not easy to change one's self but try to figure out why you think people hate you.. Maybe you need to be more friendly or loose a few pounds or have a better sense of humor... Nobody "hates" you its u who think they hate you... As someone else said, you always think others hate you as long as you hate your self..
2006-07-24 20:23:12 · answer #3 · answered by Teejay 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
it's just because they were used to u being someone else and they dont know how to react to that. but keep being yourself and soon they will get used to it and be ur best pals! and not everyone hates you. there are a lot of people on here that said they didnt hate u and i dont hate u either! good luck and i hope this helped!
2006-07-24 20:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by RebelChild69 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Same problem I give other people compliments take over work and try to help other people but I'm still treated like sh*t all the time nobody beliefs in me. sorry for not answering the question and telling you my problems I just wanted you to now your not the only one out there also sorry for grammar mistakes English is not my native language
2016-09-19 10:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by dannycornelissen38 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Am sure not everyone hates you
2015-08-17 16:25:53 · answer #6 · answered by Liu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you are rubbing people the wrong way?Dont be too outspoken because some people hate being told things outright.But dont stop being yourself its good to be true to yourself.I dont hate you though so dont say everyone hates you!
2006-07-24 20:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by Mikillah 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Are u sure people dislike U? Or U had been sensitive?
Maybe it is good to be finally be yourself but at times should be humble too!
Try to be the listening ear!
2006-07-24 21:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by Lucky♣Girl 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Hate is a very strong word. Are you sure that they just feel indifferent toward the new you? Maybe the peeps you hang with are not used to your new personality, and just need a little adjustment time.
2006-07-24 20:08:04 · answer #9 · answered by jonzmom1 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Im sure not everybody hates you! You have family and friends that love you. Stop feeling so sorry for youself and get out there and have fun! Go on!!
2006-07-24 20:27:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Not everyone.
I haven't known you long enough to get to that point.
Besides, I leave the hating to the illiterate and ignorant people.
2006-07-24 20:17:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋