please help me with a rape question!!?

Question

last year i was on my schools volleyball game.. Well oneday we had an away game at some other school. Halfway through the game i twisted my ankle. My coach sent me to the locker room to ice it down. I had noticed these two older guys watching me the whole game(maybe 22 or 23 yrs old) well, i noticed they got up when i did tho i didnt think they were following me. When i got down in the locker room, the 2 guys came out of no where. One of them closed and locked the door, and they raped me. Everytime i tried to scream they twisted my already sprained ankle. I never told anyone. I dont kno why. But lately its been too much and i think i should. Please does anyone have ideas of wat i can say to my family or friends? im 16 yrs old.

they said i i told anyone they would hurt my sister. i kno..thats dumb..but i honestly think they would

Answer 1

i can't believe a 16 year old girl would be violently raped and not tell anyone.

Answer 2

i've got self assurance that rape is a exceedingly plenty familiar situation. particular, there are some remoted societies the place the situation isn't as pressing, yet you quite ought to hunt for them. I additionally could element out that your standards for a rape loose society is quite perplexing to realize. this is human nature, sorry to assert, that as quickly as there is not any threat from predatory animals, people fill that area of interest for themselves. people definitely have a tendency for tinkering with their own nutrition grant...many a despot has got here across that ravenous the a lot, and using the discounts for weapons is an effectual ability of administration. people additionally not often proportion capability and administration, they take what they are in a position to get...and attempt to get extra. in case you look at it, changing human nature is on the subject of the only thank you to end a metamorphosis in the rape expenses.

Answer 3

Tell your parents immediately. You shouldn't have to go through this a lone. It should have never happened in the first place. Those bastards need to be locked up and the key throw en away. There is no other way but to tell your parents straight up so they can report it to the cops. Take care sweetie!

Answer 4

first of all its not your fault,

and for the guy who doesn't think a 16 yr old who was violently raped wouldn;t tell anyone----that was me at 16---it happens----you have no clue what it does to you!

I would tell, no matter how hard it is to do, I know it's hard, and the threts to your sister are jsut threats---nothign else---because if you told they know they will be in trouble.

I think you should get into some counciling now too, I never did and i never told and i kept it all in for so long---it has effected my life perminatly

if you need somone who has been there e-mail me at

[e-mail]----feel free---good to talk to others who have been there too.

take care----hope this helped ya

Answer 5

You dont need to speak to your friends. But you DO need to speak with your parents. You should also speak with a professional to help you sort out your thinking and regain your self esteem. You are at a very tender age and need to know that this was not your fault. And you have great wealth as an individual.

Answer 6

My dear Little angel , if you know , you are able to identify these two dirty people , must inform to your mother about that incident and ensure these dirty people must get badly thrashed and got punished . Same time you must have courage to face the consequences , you have to go through lots of pain , insult etc.
But if you are sure to identify these two , you must stand and take charge to ensure your sufferings will keep your society a safer place to live , may Almighty give you strength to punish these two .

Answer 7

please DONT GO ON more in silence...don't feel ashamed of what's happened to you. get the strength to point these two guys out!!! so u can start the process of having them jailed and imprisoned. there might be security cameras inside your school if you can't pick the bastards out. just tell somebody (a counselor or trusted friend, your family especially ) soon, it will be a huge lift if you don't...it'll chip away at u...go, gather the strength, and do it today.

Answer 8

If you have trouble talking about it...either write down what happened and how you feel and give it to your mom or print out exactly the Q you put here and give it to her. You have to tell her or someone (have a favorite aunt you trust?) Not only for yourself but for the other kids those BASTARDS may be waiting for!!--Do it for them!!! With my sincerest sorrow for your pain...best of luck....

Answer 9

i truely understand what you are going through, i had a secret about rape and it took me a long time to tell my mom. one day i just busted out crying and told her. everything worked out fine. pull your mom aside and tell her what happened the reason you have been holding it in is prolly cuz you think your parents will think you let them do it to you. just tell them the whole story, make sure you don't leave anything out you can still prolly press charges if you remember their descriptions.

Answer 10

of course you should tell someone ................its better late than never especially if you happen to know where the guys that did this to you are dont let their threats make you fearfull of telling ............because they are the ones that are scared ........cause they know that if you did tell they would be in trouble w/ the law .......and plus what if they are still out there hurting other young women?cause you can prevent that from happening be strong tell someone k good luck

sincerley , lita