ive known this boy since...lets say forever and hes my age (16) and he has two little sisters who im really close to. im so close to their family, theyve given me an extra set of keys to their house to walk in and out as i please. all of us used to be best friends and have a great time together when we were younger but since a few years ago when he hit puberty, hes been nothing but cold and cruel to me when i try to talk to him.
its awkward just having to see him. the earlier days when puberty was still new, he would greet me but now he doesnt even acknowledge me. whats this saying? i wanna be friends again.
2006-07-24 19:21:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like he is playing hard to get, try talking to him and tell him you miss his friend ship.
2006-07-24 19:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are undeniably hard to understand.
I had a best friend who was a guy once, and it seemed like things were perfect. We were so close, but only as friends. I'd tell him anything, he'd tell me anything. And one day, he just said he didn't want to be friends with me anymore.
He was so moody at that point. He was mean. He was rude. He treated me bad and now that I think about it, he really didn't deserve me as a friend.
Yet a while before that, he'd answer every phone call from me, talk to me 24/7, all that stuff. Now he didn't want to speak to me ever again.
I tried so many times to talk to him or get him to talk to me. Like, SO many. A ridiculous amount. My god, what a waste of time! If someone won't respect you and treat you good, you should never waste your time putting up with them.
Point is... people change. Some for the better, some for the worse. People just change. Sometimes you can change it. Sometimes it will stay that way for good.
2006-07-25 02:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are just as hard to understand as girls are. Maybe he is have a hard time with how he is feeling. Guys go through just as many changes as girls do when they hit puberty. Maybe he likes you, just give him a little time it will work it's self out.
2006-07-25 02:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by Trish V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this dude doesn't want to be friend, maybe he wants to be boyfriend and the frustration, lack of experience, and poor social skills, led him to act weird, puberty sucks! It's when we decide what kind of person we will be, is not easy at all.
2006-07-25 02:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by elcabula2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they R he's probably just worried that U won't except him 4 wat's going on with his body.Or maybe he's 2 embaressed 2 speak 2 U B cause of what's going on with his body
2006-07-25 02:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by Fashion puppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truth is ppl change. im 16 to... im just now figuring out some of this stuff, but hopefully he will continue to change until he is a good guy again, i know ive changed but nobody will aknowledge me for it .... i try to be a nice guy as often as possible but ppl that have known me for ever just wont accept that ive changed .... all im saying is give him some room accept the changes hes made and maybe they will go away... who knows,m if all else fails meet new ppl.................... its my only option
2006-07-25 02:29:49 · answer #6 · answered by tom (lineman) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im kinda having the smae problem. Its getting better now though we've started going everywhere for weeks straight.. I dont know he just started hanging out with us again...
2006-07-25 02:24:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah lyk totaly their just desame like boys dont understand girls and girls dont understand guys its total tie.
2006-07-25 02:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have noticed you as more than a friend all of sudden. This might make him nervous.
2006-07-25 02:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by chdoctor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there not. they are very easy to read once your in the game for a little bit.
2006-07-25 02:24:44 · answer #10 · answered by ☼♥Manda♥☼ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋