What do i do bi ladies any advice would be great.Any ideas on how to make her feel ok with her confusion. we have played together in the past and she was fine with that but now want to try on her own its fine with me as long as she is open about it. also were in ct for her to make bi freinds just talking to other in a situations like ours mite help
2006-07-24 19:11:56 · 13 answers · asked by pooljunky1 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am a bi female. There can be some jealousy, so beware. Open communication and honesty (between all parties involved) is the key.
She sounds lucky to have a cool husband like you :)
2006-07-25 04:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
It's a sexual act dude, not a marriage.You may think it's hot and OK as many guys do but remember that she someday may prefer a woman over you and you will be history when 2 women plan to get you out. Sometimes a few hours of lust ends up being a world of hurt.. Let it alone, if she comes to you and confesses she wants it then you may think yourself liberal enough to allow it, but if she really is bi, she will find a way to fulfill the need with or without you. Some day your youth will be gone and so will much of the sex and then you will be left with what? It's in the nature of women mostly to please their man and if you kept encouraging this then she may think it's as well what you want and she will do it to please you, but be warned many a bi woman goes lesbian.If you truly love her you do not want to see her with another lover, now do you? It's your heart and happiness, so when she brings home a man then what after all you allowed her a woman lover and you knew she is bi, right?
2006-07-24 19:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by AJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're doing great already. Just make sure that you are friendly and accepting of her new bi friends, and I think that making friends with other bi people and couples (just friends no sex) would be great for both of you. Life if full of interesting challenges, and it helps to go through it with people in similar situations.
2006-07-25 02:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her its okay. Ask her questions without judgement.
Ask her what kind of females shes attracted too. You should make it a comfy convo. You can laugh at her taste and tell you when you were this age you used to like...girls that wore glasses because they seemed to know more or something.
You are going to have to talk to her. And talk to her as you would talk to her. She isnt a crazy patient, so dont treat her as one.
She isnt a baby. So dont treat her as one.
She is your wife, your Queen, so treat her as it.
2006-07-24 19:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by King 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her have her girl/woman, better than another man I guess, maybe you can talk her into a threesome one day too? Would be a great experience to you ! Good luck!
2006-07-24 19:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have an open and honest partnership, then you can experience many of the situation advocated, but be warned it is a slippy slope you walk.she will do this anyway with or wthout you. regards and luck to you both.
2006-07-24 20:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by lefang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try threesome, alternating: 1 guy+you+your wife and then 1gal+your wife+you.... post the results over here for the 'community' guidance.
2006-07-24 20:18:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's gay and just is afraid to tell you. That is why she wants to have the woman all to herself. I just don't get it.
2006-07-24 19:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have an awesome threesome dude!!!
2006-07-24 19:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by elcabula2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok dude!!
she won't have any other man beside u,so don't worry.
2006-07-24 19:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋