it was violent. But it was a year ago. Im only 16 and im miserable. Is this temporary?The depression started after it so im assuming its because of it..I was always happy until it happened. what can i do?
2006-07-24 19:09:32 · 6 answers · asked by Masiela 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is natural - you just got raped for luds sake! Hopefully you are seeing a councellor. But you've got to work through - every day be happy for being alive - try things you have never tried - take a vacation. But the most important thing is that your talking to someone. Good Luck
2006-07-24 19:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET HELP......depression is only a cry for help. Trust me, i know. Rape is not something that would go away...and you are young. You cannot fix a problem without acknowledging it. Talk to someone...because the longer u lived depressed, the longer the person or the situation itself has control over your life.
2006-07-25 02:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by Nana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..I'm so sorry ...I hope they caught the guy ..castration is too good!! In any case have you gone to counseling? Or are you just a private person that wants to work it out herself?...These things have 2 ways to resolve themselves..How do you feel about men in general now?..Do you think it was your fault? Please be ok? Remember the person that did this was sick and you have no reason to be depressed! You have to be strong because if you don't go on with your life the way it was before then that sick person that attacked you wins...!!
2006-07-25 02:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by Dark Knight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it..it takes very lil to slip...leave the worst behind u.Say ur strong and u can get over it...prove to urself that ur the stuff winners are made up off.U can do it...forget ur past..look ahead u have ur best and glorious yrs ahead...ur just 16..live ur teens as cheerfully an teens do..enjoy.Abhi
2006-07-25 02:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by abhijit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know where you are coming from. i was 15 and i was raped. it will get better...that much i can say..but it counts on you. consider this a hard ball that life has given you...you can either move on from it or you can let it control youre life. try talking to someone you trust about it. feel free to email me at lizzy_girl1987@yahoo.com
im here to listen and help you.
2006-07-25 02:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by lizzy_girl1987 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, get professional and group counseling right away. Mine wasn't violent and it screwed me up big time. Wish I would have gone. GOGOGOGO!P.S. Don't ever let anyone tell you to just forget it!!!!!
2006-07-25 02:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by cindycara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋