yea ok.. so i havent had my period yet for maybe alittle more than a month but past my due date for it. and im nervous because my bf and i had sex about a month ago, but he never came inside of me or anything, but he pulled out before he could ***, like maybe a few minutes before he ejaculated, im scared shitless, 15 yrs, am i pragnant?
2006-07-24 19:01:37 · 32 answers · asked by Dana 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Why are you having sex at your age anyway??
I am waiting until I'm married to give my husband the best gift.....it's amazing that people will easily sell themselves off in this day in age!
2006-07-24 19:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by Songbird1979 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm afraid it is a possibility. Men have a fluid that seeps out of his manhood long before ejaculation, and it does contain semen capable of impregnating a woman. This is usually not often as it normally takes many sperm to brake down the protective layer surrounding the egg to fertilize it, but it has happened before.
There is also a chance you may be simply late on your period.
I would get a home pregnancy test to do a pre screening, and should that come up positive, head to the doctor to verify it.
My suggestion to you, should this turn out to be a false alarm, is to take extra care when you decide to have sex. I could lecture all day that you should hold off of sex at least a few more years but I know that will certainly not help you at the moment.
If you have sex, make sure you ALWAYS make your partner wear a condom, and since you are sexually active, look into birth control as well.
I hope everything works out for you and do not hold off for that pregnancy test!
2006-07-24 19:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by Slipshade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is possible you are pregnant. You can get pregnant, even if he pulls out. This is not an effective form of birth control. The only form of birth control that is 100% safe is not having sex. Before a man ejaculates, there is sperm present. Go to the doctor or get a home pregnancy test to be sure.
2006-07-24 19:07:51 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard somewhere that 90% of the sperm is in the pre-*** and I always believed it but I dont know for sure. Using the Pull Out Method might work, and it did for me and my boyfriend for over a year, but now I am 9 weeks pregnant. So be careful and take a test.
2006-07-24 19:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by natalie rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be, because "pulling out" is a really lousy form of birth control and backfires all the time! Go get tested right away!
P.S. There really ARE sperm present in 'precum' which is that little drop of clear, slippery fluid... happens just because he's excited, even *before* actual sex... and long, long before ejaculation. So yes, I'm afraid so, you could definitely be pregnant!
2006-07-24 19:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by snow_violets33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie you should go take a test as soon as possible..If it is negative then THANK GOD! You should talk to your parents about birthcontroll...I know they wont be happy to find out youre having sex but its the best thing to do. I had to do it when I was 16. Luckily im 23 now, married, and preg. with my first baby. Good luck to you, and you should really think about holding off on the sex at your age. You dont want a *high number* (if you know what i mean) when you're an adult and find MR right.
2006-07-24 19:07:35 · answer #6 · answered by CHRISTINAS MOM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur best bet is to go and buy a pregnancy test, but it can be a possibility because it dontmatter if he pulls out theres still some ejaculations thats why at 15 u should be practicing safe sex so u wouldnt have to be in the sitution ur in right now
2006-07-24 19:09:36 · answer #7 · answered by hunny bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing for you to do is to go to your local health dep. and have a free check up. it is confidential and quick. you will have the results back within minutes. if you are then you need to make some decisions like will you keep it or not. then you will have to tell your parents. but don't worry about it until you know for sure. if you are stressed out then that may be whats causing your period to be late. so just take a test and you might feel better
2006-07-24 19:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by katie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some sperm may actually appear during the act itself, before ejaculation. that's why interruption is not an effective way of contraception.
yes, u may have got pregnant.
otherwise, if it's just a few days of delay, wait a bit - at ur age periods may still be uneven.
buy a pregnancy test if u r really scared and can't wait.
2006-07-24 19:07:44 · answer #9 · answered by Lana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dont freak out, if you stress out about being pregnant, it can cause your period to be delayed. happends to my girlfriend a lot. first, you need to purchase a pregnancy test from a pharmacy or krogers or walmart or target, or something like that.
make sure to follow the instructions very well. and if the thing comes with two tests, use both of them.
you could also try and find a free health clinic around your area and see if you can come in and tell them your situation.
on a side note, you might want to stop having sex right now. your only causing more drama and problems by doing that right now. your only 15, you need to have a childhood, its one of the most fun times of your life. dont complicate it with sex. you can have as much as you want later in life, but right now your way to young. dont want to see you getting hurt
2006-07-24 19:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by 63godtoh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be.. I ended up pregnant even though my ex pulled out. He didnt even finish cause I got undrunk and realized that even though he was my boyfriend I wasn't ready to be having sex with him. My doctor told me that the sperm in prec*m is more potent. Needless to say I learned my lesson right quick. I'm just lucky that my son son's grandparents love having him over so I still get to go out on the weekends. I suggest that you go buy a early pregnancy test or go to a free clinic. then if you are.. talk to your mom..
2006-07-24 19:17:28 · answer #11 · answered by Nina R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋