it has been a question by most guys why girls say they like nice guys, but always choose jerks... how about a question, like, why do guys always say they like nice girls but always choose those girls who are not nice to them?
i am asking because i'm really wondering... could anyone enlighten me?
thanks a bunch!!! =)
2006-07-24 18:57:38 · 14 answers · asked by Inquirer 5 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
Ever hear of forbidden fruit? That is what the guy is after...she says no, and looks more attractive.
2006-07-24 19:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Knows 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys only look at the girls outside and not the inside they usually don't care if they are nice or if they have a good personality or if they are smart guys usually just care if the girl has a nice body and big boobs I'm a guy and I try not to be like that but I don't get girls I'm very nice and respectful to all the girls in my school yet some of my friends who are jocks and can be real jerks get all the girls I think girls are a lot like guys and just look at whats on the outside and not the inside but that's just what I think.
2006-07-25 17:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by loot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a guy, but thats is a good question. maybe it because they feel they cant get anyone better. i date jerks because thats all i feel i can get. nice guys dont look at me. and as for my friend torrence, his girl is a she devil. and he says (hes next to me here answering this) " i rather have a pretty girl whos mean than an ugly girl whos nice. and the pretty and nice girls never give me the time a day"
2006-07-24 19:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the guys who want nice girls usually have low self esteem when they are alone with the nice girl. So they compensate by acting foolish and settling for the easy way out and take what they can get without taking the risk of being themselves in front of others. Maybe.
2006-07-24 19:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by chrissm2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like "kiss my a$$" atitudes are like chick magnets.
I think a female, in her first few "trial runs"..wants a guy that'll break a few rules, show them a good time....take them places they've never been before. ie the "bad boy". Later on..after having been burnt, embarressed or both..they start to seek out the safer and more consistent type. As Freud would say...seeking a father figure.
2006-07-24 19:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by mark c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my personal opinion is because guys don't want to go out with a nice girl, because they aren't ready to settle down, and they don't want to break up with a girl, thats nice to them. Guys like to reciprocate, if the girl is a B*#ch, then we don't feel bad about being mean to them and if need be end the relationship, but if a girl is nice we don't want to hurt them. again personal opinion
2006-07-24 19:05:06 · answer #6 · answered by Whatcanbrowndo4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because most choose girls who r pretty and dum and they just like to have fun with them but a decent guy will chose a girl who loves him from her heart and the guy likes her from his inner personality but most guys who r jerks goes for beauty and body.
2006-07-24 19:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by WASIF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like the old joke that you would never want to be a member of a club that would take you. People only prize what they can't quite have. People don't want other people who make their lives too easy. Someone who demeans you is somehow more desirable to you.
2006-07-24 19:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by rollo_tomassi423 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not so much as nice girls / bad girls as it is a guy thinking with his head (the one with the brain) instead of his head
(the one with the *&@) =)
nice girls never have boobs....
laughs -totally kidding but you get what Im saying.
Send me a message tell me what you think...
2006-07-24 19:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by ]{ane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not please a human being 100% it's our nature, if you have a girlfriend who doesn't fight, she is boring, if you have a girlfriend who is always fighting, she is a *****. Off course humans are totally different and some cope with this better than others but there is always something deep inside that doesn't let us be happy with whatever we have
2006-07-24 19:04:45 · answer #10 · answered by elcabula2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋