Do you think that one of the spouses or s/o's love will be stronger and deeper?
2006-07-24 18:49:30 · 12 answers · asked by nativeamericantay 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Mr Spock,don't ever underestimate your hONEybears love.
2006-07-24 20:59:38 · update #1
Yes, almost always.
2006-07-24 18:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that in a good relationship both people should love eachother equally. However, this is not the case in many relationships, that is why the divorce rate is where it is at.
The key is not so much love or in love on person is with the other, but how much respect that they have for eachother.
If one spouse's love is stronger than the others, then the relationship is not as strong as it should be. I believe that before marriage, couples are not on the same level of love. Once they decide to get married, though, their love should be at the same level. I guess it takes time for levels of love to match.
So I guess that yes it is definetly possible that a spouse's love is stronger and deeper than the others. But if this last too long, they may be in for an imbalanced and rocky marriage.
2006-07-25 02:05:36 · answer #2 · answered by Loc P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love a person enough to marry them I hope the feelings would be mutual. But if this was the case the divorce rate wouldn't be so high. As far as relationships go I know in almost all of them one partner is loving more stronger than the other, therefore is likely the one who will get hurt.
2006-07-25 04:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes a marriage is never 50/50 , its always 80/20 one always giving more then the other, the problems come in when its always the same person doing the 80%, and it not switching .. and im sure one person is always in love with the other more.. only because how do u really measure love.. to find out for sure.. but i do think that some love easier then other and have a bigger realm of loving then others..
2006-07-25 01:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, simply because our hearts are different. Our parental love was different, therefore our love will be different. The good thing about marriage is that the love becomes one and strengthens the weaker side to become the same level. The stronger one teaches the weaker one what true love really is and in the end they are the same.
2006-07-25 01:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by Mr B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. In fact I have noticed that if the man loves the woman more the relationship is greater stronger and healthier. I don't know why. Needy women probably kill a relationship but having a man adore you?...lovely.
2006-07-25 02:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by littleflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once heard people said, a marriage is just like your both palm, if you have 5 fingers on both palm, then it's well balance, and both of you will be happy, but if the different become greater, it will be more saddness, as two of you will not be able to hold hand tight enough....
2006-07-25 02:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. There is always a shift of emotions throughout a relationship between men and females.
Sometimes females love more, and sometimes its the guys.
2006-07-25 01:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think someone does end up loving the other person more. My bf and I discussed this- he loves me more but I need him more. That doesn't mean I don't love him or that he doesn't need me but temperments and needs differ so why wouldn't the levels of emotion?
2006-07-25 02:25:33 · answer #9 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always i know i love my hONEybear more then she loves herself or me. because she loves me less and I still love her even more so, shows w/o a doubt that i love her even more! its always going to be so, but theres nothing wrong with it.
2006-07-25 03:44:28 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Spock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep always.. Just hope your the one being loved more because it hurts to be the one that is more in love...
2006-07-25 01:56:04 · answer #11 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋