We really seem to have so much in common and talk on the computer for hours on in......We are planning on meeting soon... should I have sex with him or not? We talk about sex on the computer alittle but more so about a relationship...what should I do when we meet?
2006-07-24 18:33:58 · 20 answers · asked by UlickNme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well whenever u meet this person your feeling could instantly change. yah it's easy to like or love somebody by words but when you go to meet him person you might not like what you hear or see or reactions and realize this person isn't for u. i would try waiting a couple weeks or however long it takes befor eyou really feel what you're wanting.
2006-07-24 18:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by smoochy 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Meet him if you want, date for a while, and see what happens. You Definitely should Not have sex the first time you meet him, not even in the first month. You really should wait for marriage, but at least date for a while and get to know each other.
Remember, he may not be the person he says he is on the computer, so be careful!
2006-07-24 18:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by Jolie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time and get to know the person in person first. Yes, there is a connection but the last thing that should be on both of you guy's minds is sex. Get to know each other and see where this road will take you. If all goes well and you guys wound up being a couple and you've been together for a long time, then you can have sex. But, in the meantime, wait because patience is a virtue.
2006-07-24 18:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You barely know him from the computer and already you want to have sex with him? Don't you think that first you should know more about him and see that everything that you guys have been talking throughout the computer is true.
2006-07-24 18:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by car4423 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out for a few dates first. see if hes really even interested in you because, if you have already talked about sex then he might be thinking that that's all he wants and your going to give it to him right when you meet and then he will just bounce. be smart OK.
2006-07-24 18:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by ☼♥Manda♥☼ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what makes you compy.... If u want to have sex with him then do it if you don't then you don't owe him anything.. It's all about you so keep it that way... As far as is there anything wrong with sleeping with someone you have just talked to on line well no one has a right to judge what's right for you.. So just tell them to mind thier won business and do what you feel is right .. good luck
2006-07-24 18:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u didnt meet him, yet, you should wait for that first then start thinking about sex after. Don't you guys want a relationship or is it just a booty call?
2006-07-24 19:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by Nana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say date first, sex later (if even then). Definately date for A WHILE before having sex with him.
If he doesn't agree with this and stops talking to you he is just trying to use you.
2006-07-24 18:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by abe_perkins81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet first and if it feels right go for it. If not and he stops talking to you , you know that's all he wanted.
2006-07-24 19:00:38 · answer #9 · answered by fly on the wall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have sex before marriage. But if you feel inclinded to do it, then do it. Follow your heart, as they say! Good night!
I sortof wish i was the guy.
2006-07-24 18:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋