Me and my boyfriend broke up about 2 weeks ago. When we broke up all he said was that he wanted to take a break but he has another girlfriend but his bestfriend told me that he wants to break up with her and go back out with me. While we were going out he never cheated on me or anything like that. And we went to the movies and out to eat every friday together. I still love him a lot but should i go back out with him?
2006-07-24 18:14:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
We dated for .almost 2 months and he broke up with me the day before our 2 month anniversary
2006-07-24 18:33:20 · update #1
your better than him sweetheart! don't let him play this game with you. you aren't someone who will be there when it is convienent for him, you are better than that! don't let him place you on a back burner, and only come around when he wants to. it will become a viscious cycle and it will hurt more everytime he decides to go away for awhile. i'd say cut your losses now, 2 months isn't that long of a time. there is some guy who will treat you like the princess you are. he just sees that he lost a great girl and wants to have his cake and eat it to.
2006-07-24 21:10:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well to me, whether you just made it to your 2 month anniversary or not, is not the question here. The fact that he couldn't be up front with you and tell you that he had another girl in mind, and he wanted to get to know others, as you are in your teen years...........honesty is a great quality, much needed and not seen much anymore. I would not worry about going back out with him at this time, and just get to know yourself, get to making some of your own friends, and go out with other guys, have fun! This is the time to do that! You'll have lots of time for one on one time and with somebody who is going to take your feelings, your thoughts into account. It's not all about him here, in a healthy, successful relationship, it takes two! Think of yourself here, take care of you and you know what? If you love something, set it free, if it comes back to you(in being an HONEST man)it is yours, if it doesn't, it never was. In the meantime, girls just wanna have fun so go for it!Just be safe! :)
2006-07-24 19:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not go back to him. If he really cared about you he wouldn't have hooked up with that other girl so fast and he wouldn't have need a break from you in the first place. Get some self respect and get over this loser.
2006-07-24 18:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by jj02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a convenience store.
He broke up with you and went out with another girl, now he's changed his mind and wants you back. If you make it that easy, he'll break up with you whenever he feels like it. Make him work for it. B
2006-07-24 18:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, his best friend told you about him wanting to break up with his current girlfriend so i wouldn't see it as the gospel truth if i were you. also, it seems like this guy has serious commitment issues and if you love someone he should be someone who you can commit to and who can commit to you. my advice, play it on the safe side so no matter what happens you leave with as little hurt as possible
2006-07-24 23:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by wolverine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay with him, my sister's husband had done that to her, but sometimes guys just don't know what they're doing.. give it time.. but its realli your choice, if he sounded sincere then stay with him :)
2006-07-24 18:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by x0xbleedblackx0x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no make him wish tha he never dumped you. he hurt you hurt him back play hard to get
2006-07-24 19:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont date him, make him sweat it out. he left you for another women, you dont deserve that.
2006-07-24 18:18:32 · answer #8 · answered by Buddah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋