it's a maturity thing
i feel like if i move out, i'll mature a lot
but i just don't have any money to move out
is there anything i can do to become a more matured person?
2006-07-24 18:10:58 · 23 answers · asked by Rock 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yeah.... get a job
2006-07-24 18:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know your age so this may or may not help. If you have graduated from High school and are at least 18 yrs old and have no physical problems, it would be sound advise to suggest you join the service. Naturally, I would recommend the Air Force, having spent ten years there my self. You will get the discipline there that will lead to the maturity you seek and an excellent education. If, on the other hand, you are a drop out, you would be doing your self tremendous help if you stuck it out abet and at least got a GED. It won't get you as far in the services (or in life in general) but it may still get you on a road to make something of your self. Do a two year hitch (for starters-may turn out you'll find a career there), get that self reliance and that degree of maturity and then go confidently on to bigger and better things. The only thing holding you back is YOU, not the money.
2006-07-25 01:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by Dusty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do define as mature? If it is responsibility you want then pay for staying at home, pay the light bill or telephone bill, my grocery etc. I do not know how old you are but Bills will make you run back home. Moving out may sound like a good idea but find out first how you are going to take care of bills work and school. School always ends up suffering & basically if you dont achieve a title your going to end up at a job you'll hate with a low income. If you are a little older and you think you'll have more privacy because you can have someone spend the night without interruptions well you'll be too tired or out of cash to take advantage of that. Sooner or later you'll take less classes & more work hours just to meet the bills & the cash you'll need to have some fun when able. Be smart take advantage that your parents are willing to help you while they can? I do hope you are getting this.
2006-07-25 01:21:20 · answer #3 · answered by kellie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, are you of age to move out? Secondly, are your parents paying for your college or some other necessity? Third, are you certain that moving out will promote your maturity - or might it slow your maturity down (partying, casual sex, drunkenness, drug experimentation or use - any time you feel like it).
If you are of age to be on your own, you should be grateful if your parents are supporting you (some stop when one hits 18 or finishes college). Do you have a job? If so, do you have enough education and experience to find one that pays more? If the answers to those two questions is "no," you are not ready to move out, and be thankful that you don't have the type of parents who would force you out on your own.
2006-07-25 01:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell, I aint mature and I moved out of my moms house 8 years ago... Maturity has nothing to do with moving out, it has to do with how you handle your responsibilities.. Are you able to hold a job? Are you a man of your word?
What the hell is maturity anyway, whose to say that because your 30 years old that you cant play a playstation or have a pillow fight.. Who makes all of these stupid rules...
Hey, im as goofy as they come but I dont care.. Im mature based on how I see maturity, not on how society views it... You'll be fine but I do agree that you do need to get a job to make the money to move out...
2006-07-25 01:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by NIKFAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay at home as long as possible.
If you want to be more mature, get a job, apply yourself and do well in school, and do things that responsible mature adults do. But do not rush out of your parents home. Stay and save money. Get along with them. Do the dishes. Take out the garbage. Do these things without being told. Thats maturity. Offer to help pay bills. Thats maturity. Cleanup after yourself and others. Do the laundry. Thats maturity. Get along with your parents and family. Thats maturity. If you sincerely want to be more mature....
YOU ARE IN CHARGE. MAKE A LIST OF THINGS OR CHARACTERISTICS OF MATURITY YOU SEEK...THEN DO THESE THINGS.
2006-07-25 01:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by Yourname Here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very, very hard to move out without any money, unless you have a friend you could stay with. But if not, before moving, you need a car and a job and some money saved up.
2006-07-25 01:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by daydreamer8725 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? well, you sound like you are maturing. you could go get a job and save the money. when you have enough then look for an apertment and move out. Good Luck!
2006-07-25 01:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to a homeless shelter get a job start supporting yourself if your young enough you can't get a good job then get some roommates to help share the expenses
2006-07-25 01:21:13 · answer #9 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try getting a job first, save some money, then move out. Common sense.
2006-07-25 01:13:29 · answer #10 · answered by jestelap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move in with a friend until you do have the money, and get a job. Or get a live in job.
2006-07-25 01:12:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋