I'm 15 and?

Question

i'm 15 and me and my b/f is trying 2 have a baby when been2gether 4 3 yers and we been having sex 4 2 years but nothing had worked

Answer 1

What? Why? You can't even legally drive a car yet, why the hell would you want to miss out on so much fun TEEN years ahead of you; homecoming, prom, school football/sporting games, parties, etc... Do you think that by having this baby it will a sure thing that he'll never leave you?!? If that's the reason then it's pathetic, I have seen too many friends have their lives ruined because they had a baby and the guy walked out on them. Pick up a couple of babysitting jobs and see that kids are not a cake walk, and they need alot of time and devotion. Wait until your older and more mature before making such a huge life changing decision. Live your life now and have fun doing so.

Answer 2

Am not sure if it's a joke or if you telling the truth but it makes me wonder if you are fifteen and been trying already for two years you must of been 13 years old.Some girls don't even have there first periods.Did you had one?I don't know if you talked with your boyfriend about things like how you support your child or where will you live.If your boyfriend is also 15 then he is not mature enough to take care of a child and you and even if you will have a baby I don't thing he would stay it's just temporary and he is tooooooo young and you as well.Just think about it and hope you change your mind and wait until you are at least 18 years old and finish your school and become something.It is not just a baby doll it's real crying baby with wakeful nights,tirednes,soiled nappies,etc

Answer 3

Just exactly who do you think is going to take care of this child that you are trying so hard to conceive. You can't even have a job yet. And who do you think will drive you to the doctor's office since you are too young to have a drivers license? You are taking on way more than you can imagine. Your not married so if this guy decides this daddy thing is too hard, guess who's left holding the bag.....uh.... YOU! Who will buy the clothes, food, pay medical expenses and where will you live? And I hope you don't think that a pay check from Micky D's (McDonald's) is going to cover all these expenses! Oh, I forgot maybe you are depending on welfare. And since you've decided to for go your college education and probably you high school education, you'll be dumb as a rock trying to teach a baby how to grow-up and be successful. Forget going out to have fun, the only fun you'll be having is changing diapers and having green peas spit in your hair. OH YEAH and thinking about what you could have been! You haven't thought this through at all and you are making the biggest mistake of you life. You have soooooooo much to look forward to. Don't waste your life dreaming of things that you could have had......get the things that you need (education, money, success and life experience) first and the baby will come when it is time. God bless you ...... Pleeeeeeeeeease think about what you are doing to your life.

Secondly, I think you need to talk to someone about what you are planning on doing. It sounds like there is something missing in you life. Maybe it's love or acceptance. Believe me this is not the route to go. Yes, a baby will love you unconditionally, but the repercussions that will happen b/c of your decision will not allow you to enjoy the joy that comes from being a parent. Love yourself first, and don't tell me you do already because you wouldn't be consider ruining you life if you did.

Answer 4

I know exactly how you feel honey! But please listen to me,please! I was in the same situation when I was your age. Actually I was 14,I wanted a baby sooooooooo bad. It didn't happen for me until I was 19. I got married because I was pregnant. Shortly after we began fighting all the time,he became very abusive and short tempered. We both wanted this baby but we were young (me:19 & him:26) and didn't realize the stress and toll it would take on our relationship. He almost KILLED our daughter so to save her life I had to put her up for adoption. It was the HARDEST thing that I've ever had to do in my whole life!!
That was 12 1/2 years ago. My advise to you is to wait until you are at least 25, hopefully you and you're bf will still be together and if not at least you have a chance at Mr.Right coming along.
Give yourself the chance to experience life and to find out who YOU are,to be the best person that you can be. Your FUTURE CHILDREN will thank you for waiting.

Answer 5

dont you think you are a bit young at 15 you are still a baby yourself, you would have no money being 15 no house of your own to bring the baby up in, i think you should wait a couple of more years, maybe god is trying to tell you something your body must not me ready for a baby yet, you are still in school have a life in school do your exams and have a well paid job before you start a family, your not evenold enough yet to have sex!!! go out clubbin have holidays before you have a baby.

Answer 6

Don't take this the wrong way, but you're only 15. Why do you want a baby?!? You have your whole life ahead of you, and if you are sexually active be safe and always use protection. Maybe you should wait until you're at least out of college to start a family.

Answer 7

honey slow down! you are 15, you don't need to have a kid right now! finish school and make something of yourself. i know girls have been able to finish and even go to college, but not without heart ache and long hours. i'd be willing to bet he is saying anything under the sun you want to hear, but in the end who knows if he'll be there. who knows if you'll want him around. please think twice about this and be more careful. don't ruin your life. if he loves you and you him, you'd both wait. life as an adult isn't that easy and working long hours with nothing to show for it in the end is something you can do when your out of high school. you don't need that stress now. have fun while you can! don't miss out on your youth!

Answer 8

Ummm... first of all... get these under your belt BEFORE a baby:
1. Highschool Diploma
2. Car
3. Home (not with mommy/daddy)
4. MARRIAGE!
5. Jobs
6. Good health insurance... babies are not free.

God doesn't want you to have a baby right now for a reason.

Answer 9

please, please, please don't get pregnant at your age. how will you support your child? where will you live? what about your education? if you need to be around a baby that badly, get a babysitting job. you aren't even married. most kids his age find that parenting is not for them and they leave. so there you are with a baby and no help or support. you will give up your youth and he will go back to his. please just don't do it. for your future's sake and the for the sake of any child that you might conceive. do you realize how much it costs to have a baby? and I'm not just talking about the medical expenses and doctor bills. they need clothing and shoes and diapers. a roof over their heads, food in their stomachs. who is going to pay for all of this? how will you get the baby to the doctor? how will you get to the grocery store? how will you pay for insurance? you need to be able to answer these questions before you bring a child into this world. welfare isn't what it used to be.

Answer 10

WHERE ARE THE ADULTS???? Shouldn't someone be trying to show you the way to better living? Having a baby is about the worst thing you can do right now, it will make it very difficult to improve your living situation. DON'T DO IT!