my bf has this lesbian friend, he follows every bit of advice she gives and thats fine usually, his life, he can run it how he wants but now the bi**h is telling him how 2 deal with me. i dont tolerate anyone stepping on my toes and the woman doesnt know me from a hole in the ground so who is she 2 tell him how 2 deal with me? thing of it is, in his eyes she does nothing wrong, hell he and my cousin talked about me 2 eachother openly and i let it slide that he didnt even ask me if any of it was true, didnt even matter 2 me that he didnt defend me 2 her yet his wonderful Lesbian does no wrong so i say one thing the lest bit negative about her then its all out war, he defends her tooth and nail and im pretty sure if he had 2 choose it would b her rather than me yet he claims 2 love me and want 2 marry me. what do i do about this?
2006-07-24 18:00:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There is nothing that you can do about this. He's in love with her and thinks she makes the sun rise. Hopefully, he'll get over it eventually.
2006-07-24 18:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk with your man and try to make him understand where your coming from. Why haven't you met her? If their where friends before you two got together you should at lest was introduce to her. You should also inform your cousin that its wrong for him/her to be talking to your man about you. And, if your boyfriend LOVE so much he should be able to handle how stress out you are feeling. If he don't change maybe its time to look for and new MAN and not a boy.
2006-07-24 18:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by JO`NAE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that it is like that with most guys. We all have friends we talk to about our girlfriends. It is best to try to get along with his friends. Bros before hoes as the saying goes. If he does love you then that saying doesn't count. Just wait for him to eventually get into a fight with his friend and then get closer to him. Most married couples lose or become distant to their single friends anyways. You might have to wait until marriage to be more important than his friends.
2006-07-24 18:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by Mr B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything more than 3 lines - nobody cares
2006-07-24 18:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then DUMP HIM! Find someone else and DUMP HIM! (That seems so obvious!) Oh yes, DUMP HIM!
2006-07-24 18:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by doc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is not sure if he really wants you - looks like that - the lesbo also wants u away from him.
2006-07-24 18:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by maloom.nahi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋