If u were preagnate and u told ur man and he said to abort it what would u do?
2006-07-24 17:42:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
This is your baby and if your heart tell you to keep it, tell him to get lost but you need to be ready a baby is a lifetime commitment that is right a lifetime commitment you will be having, remember if your b/f decides to walk away you will be left with the baby and that will have to become your world...Think about it and discuss it with yourself, you will be the only able to answer this question.Good luck.
2006-07-24 17:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by ivygery4ever 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would never have the option of having an abortion. If he doesn't want anything to do with the child, then maybe that guy is not worth it. Its a sin and a crime (in some parts of the world and the US) to have an abortion. First of all, tell that guy that it takes two to tango... meaning, his sperm was also involved in this!
Follow your heart. I know this is hard and sometimes life is unfair. But hey, u are not given this baby if u are not capable! Think of it as a miracle and just follow your gut. You know its not right to abort the baby, right? Tell the guy how u feel... If he's not willing to support, maybe he's not willing to support you in any parts of your life. He should be able to be there for you no matter what. Talk it over, and if he's willing to support you, hes worth your love.
2006-07-25 01:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by joe_logs_a_co 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would frankly kill him...resurrect him...and then kill him again.
Your "man" is not a man at all, he's a pu**y frankly and you need to dump him and find a real man...
No man has any say on what a woman will do or won't do with her own body. NO MAN! Abortion is a woman's issue, not a mans...so put on your big-girl panties and dump him....
And by the way, it's pregnant; not preagnate...just FYI there.
2006-07-25 00:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by Poppet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u have dreams of going to college thin it would be the best thing but ur man is not going 2 be there 4 u now the question u should ask urself are u ready 2 be a mother
2006-07-25 01:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by chrisbrowngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but he's not much of a man. A man would accept the responsibility of the baby he and you helped create. Even if you are not capable of being a good parent (I don't know your age or anything), there are many couples who want children who could adopt your child. Pray about it, ask for help, but don't have an abortion:( I know it's easy for me to say, but it's only what's right.
2006-07-25 00:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by violindiva72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he ain't much of a man if he said tat u to unless wif valid reasons. i believe tat even if u give birth to the baby, the father might not be matured enough to have a family. therefore problems will start to rise and the innocent baby will have to suffer. follow ur heart and do not regret the choice u have made. make a decision, follow it and dun look back. u do have to know tat having a baby is not an easy thing to handle. tink twice!
2006-07-25 03:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by nana17sg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God turns mistakes into blessings. He makes NO mistakes. He can take any situation and turn it around for the better if you ask him to. Trust him that he will make sure that you and the baby are ok. But he doesn't want you to kill it. I would not be so quick to stay with a man who tells you to kill his unborn child, but this would be YOUR child too, and it is your responsiblity to protect it. Don't think of this as bad thing, because the Lord means for every one of us to be here, and if someone would have decided that our lives were going to be too "inconvenient" for our parents, and they just killed us then none of us would be here. I'm praying for you and your baby, and your child would beg you to let him live if they could speak, don't ignore that voice, and God will take care of the rest.
2006-07-25 01:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by all means do not follow him. there are a lot of women who are not blessed with cute little angels and are so desperate at getting pregnant. leave your man behind and start a new life with your baby. he doesn't deserve to be a father a your little angel.
2006-07-25 01:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by gayle's mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is, LEAVE the man even if you choose to go for abortion or even if you decide to keep the baby.
2006-07-25 01:00:53 · answer #9 · answered by pn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think i wouldn't do it cause the baby doesn't have any thing to do with the parents problems so yea that's my answer. Oh yeah and u can be in danger too so think about it.......good look
2006-07-25 00:48:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋