I just had sex for the first time recently, and it was a wonderful experience. However, when my girl asked me to get on top of her, I was shocked by how difficult it was to maintain the missionary position. I expected it to be really easy and just be the most natural thing in the world. However, it required so much upper-body strength that I couldn't do it for more than a few moments at a time. I felt like I had to support my entire weight on my arms and the balls of my knees, while thrusting forward at an awkward angle. Plus the bed was too soft and was sinking in. It felt comparable to doing push-ups, and I can't really do all that many push ups. I was embarassed to admit to her how much it was tiring out my arms and stomach, so I asked to finish in doggy-position.
Considering the popularity of the missionary position, I have a feeling I wasn't..."doing it right". Damn, my stomach is sore, it isn't supposed to be this exhausting! Any advice?
2006-07-24 17:35:34 · 11 answers · asked by vchen91745 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
you need more practice to build up those unused muscles
2006-07-24 17:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by johnman142 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no problem with it whatsoever. OK there are other positions and it is good to change and experiment but missionary is still a very natural and loving position which allows you to maintain eye contact,talk to each other and kiss. Maybe many of the boys you know are not that mature really?
2016-03-16 04:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you know what? It isn't really easy. If you get tired, just switch it up and rest with your elbows on the bed, or put your arms behind her head/back and lay a few deep kisses on her. Another good move is to put her legs up over one or both shoulders; it gives you a really nice angle and it's very tight. No matter what position you're in, one of you, at least, is going to have to be working at it hard.
I've got plenty of upper-body strength (after years of being wimpy) and personally, I like to hold myself up with one arm and lift my girl up close with the other. I've known a few girls who go nuts for this.
That said, missionary is a good go-to position, but it's hardly the most ideal. Once you get comfortable, try some different stuff and see what you two both like.
2006-07-24 17:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by Argon 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
#1 Practice is key
#2 workout, it will be such a huge benefit to your newly acquainted sex life. Make certain you work on an overall body routine, to strengthen your core muscles. It will help you soo much in the future when you meet 2 or 3 ladies and have to treat them to a one night sexcapade.
#3 congratulations into man hood my friend.
2006-07-24 18:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by mach_690 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL my brother went through the same thing (Yes he told me......-rolls eyes-)....The more you do it the less it will hurt and it will become a very natural stride....my suggestion to you is try spooning with her, holding her close while she is in front of you...That way you can always use the excuse that you just can't get close enough to her in the regular position!!
2006-07-24 17:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by ~Sinfully~Exquisite~Stalking~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations, dude! Personally, I like female superior.
#1, the bed was too soft. Water beds do not live up to the hype, either.
#2, Get a copy of the Kama Sutra and find out what you and your girl(s) do like.
#3, Kitchen floor, kitchen table, kitchen stool, kitchen sink. The only limit is your imagination.
2006-07-24 17:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are a disgrace to the men of this world. I hope no woman looks at you and thinks we are all that way. What you need is a sex partner until you get yourself in shape and I don't mean a woman. I mean a male friend to help you out. This is how it works . You get her going then jump off when you are tired and your buddy jumps in and keeps her going till you get a second wind and then you jump on and finish and get all the credit and she invites you you back for more but then you may need another buddy for this as you wimps seem to hang out together and you all need help.. Your call.PROBLEM SOLVED.Call me if you have any other questions
2006-07-24 17:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by irishlad 3 · 2⤊ 6⤋
Suggest that she get on top. It is not so stressfull for her,and she can control the stimulation. My guess is you will love it too.
2006-07-24 17:39:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I never had that problem. I would say that you need to work out your core (abs), and your bicepts.
2006-07-24 18:34:24 · answer #9 · answered by shaun1986 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
You should never do the nasty in a church full of people and especially if they are Missionaries. Do it in private and away from the church. God doesn't want to see you doing it in the church.
2006-07-24 17:38:39 · answer #10 · answered by EMAILSKIP 6 · 0⤊ 5⤋