I want to pretty and fit!!! help?

Question

im 12 and i weight 230 i have at least one thousand zits on my arms and stomach and legs and face i need help i want to be pretty and a cheerleader my nick name at school is maddy the faddy people run if they get near me im only friends with mentally chanllenged people and a girl who is gothic and doesnt eat i want to be skinny really bad i want to get rid of that nick name and people to want to be my friend plz help me im very overweight and im in band and people run away from me no one will sit next to me on the bus or in class im what the cool kids would call "nerd" i hate the name maddy the faddy and i suck at gym school starts in three weeks and i want to be pretty and people be jealous of my new hot bod and i feel really gross and i dont take showers so im trying to fix my smell my grandma says i cant wear make up because i have ugly skin and it would make it much worse so if you could help me i would luv not to be called the horrible nick name

MADDY THE FADDY!

Answer 1

Well here is what I would do....

For your zits...
I use proactive for acney!
It works so good!

overweight....
Exercize!
Do a light jog everyday!
Also eat two fruits a day!
And eat healthy!

For you prettyness...
Go to the mall and shop in stores like..
Aropostale
Hollister
Pacsun.....

ALWAYS REMEMBER STICKS AND STONES MAY BRAKE MY BONES BUT WORDS WILL NEVER HURT ME!!!
Always have faiht in yourself!
Good luck!
Emily

Answer 2

I am so sorry for you. My daughter is overweight also at the age of 7.. It is hard but try eating more veggies and fruit and no sugar no pop no chip and exercice for 30 mins everyday and don't take a shower, but get into the bath tub every other night and relax you body w/ some nice smelling bath gels, but you must still use soap on your facecloth and scrub your body and in the mornings take a shower or just wash up daily. Be confidant inyour self and sstay strong. work on your self and read and do good inschool not matter what. Ask your granny to get you some Proactive for the acne and take you to the doctor

Answer 3

well first u have to take a shower daily so u want ge other nick name at school, then u should cut off on eating meat and start walking and wear a swether so u can born calories much faster try to walk w/ some one at list 30 mins a day, and the acne wash ur face 2 times a day w/ warm water and ur grandma is right and a way dont wear make up yet ur too young and dont let people bring you dont i know its gonna be hard but due before its too late
well good luck

Answer 4

thats really really sad. ok well you need to lose weight. Eat healthy food all the time, never junk food. and start working out. and there is no such thing as having skin bad enough not to wear makeup. i have awful skin too but i look good with makeup. try wearing it first and im sure you'll look fabulous. why the heck dont you take showers?! thats why u have zits! u have to take one everyday! just doing that will improve everything. wash your whole body.

Answer 5

sweetheart, your weight will only come off over a long period of time, not in three weeks, here are some recommendations for you.

1, shower daily with a general soap, and use wash cloth to scrub face, and body,

2, start walking and stretching, after a week or two of this start doing some cardiovascular activities like swimming, bike riding, jogging and keep stretching your muscles to keep them limber and healthy.

3, stay away from junk foods, start to eat healthy, fruits and veggies, stay away from fast food places, eat only portion sizes, for one person, not 2-3 servings of each item,

4, during this time frame, set goals that are obtainable. like this week I want to be able to walk 2 miles in 30 minutes also loose 3 pounds, sounds like a small amout, but healthy way and it will add up over the next few weeks into months, you can have a healthy body weight and skin in no time, skin will come first, weight will come in time,

5, DONT Put yourself down, Dont listen to other kids, Kids are very hurtfull with their mouths, believe in yourself,!!! You can become pretty outside with time and effert. Inside beauty comes within you. If you are a beautyiful person inside then the outside comes easier. YOU HAVE TO LIKE YOURSELF NOW AND FOREVER!!!!! you may weight 230 lbs, that can come off, uglyness from within is very heard to ever get rid of. You sound like a young girl who wants to change, You can do it. ask for help from parents, or if you go to church someone there, it will be hard to do on your own, It can be done. Try to get several people to help support you during this time frame. at your age pimples are there because of hormones and oils on skin and from not showering and keeping self clean. pores in skin trap dirt and oils, will clean up easily. Good luck to you,

Answer 6

ask your mom or grandma to help you find a nutritionalist, dermatoligist and a counselor. this sort of change you want to have happen overnight takes a lot of time. i used to get acne on my arms and shoulder blades. i started using a body wash that has tea tree oil and charcoal in it and it cleared right up. and dont think that if you become thin and pretty that people will want to be your friend. you will be disappointed if you think thats what will happen. you need to work on your own self esteem first by taking better care of yourself. start by eating better things and taking a shower more often. please find a family member to talk to about this and hopefully they can help you. good luck to you.

Answer 7

use Harvey's exercise DVD it works I'm 12 and went from 140 to 100 in 4 months I am really happy!! use it go to Vh1.com and shows then you ll see it order it you'll see it works!!!!

Answer 8

*** How to Look Pretty ***

Worried about your looks? Being pretty doesn't take much work, and the natural look is best.

Steps
Get your hair trimmed regularly (search on-line for colors and styles that best fit your face shape and hair type). Always brush it. Nobody likes a girl who doesn't take care of herself. Try straightening it to the side, or curling it wavy. Dyes aren't that good and usually come out bad. But if you have to, then make sure it's one you like. Pink on blonde hair always looks nice. Red on pale girls looks bad.
Use moisturizer suited to your skin every day. Exfoliate with facial and body scrub. Invest in quality hair and skin care products.
Try going for that fresh summer look by not plastering your face with makeup, but lightly adding it here and there. Makeup is made to enhance your features, not cover them. A little bit of eyeliner flatters your eyes, and a bit of mascara at the tips can make the lashes longer. Don't wear any shocking colors during the day. Keep natural during the day and play it up during the night.
Pick clothes that flatter your body, but don't go too far. People get the wrong impression if you show too much skin. You can be cute and look conservative at the same time! Try a pair of jeans and a shirt, or a skirt with a nice shirt. Flatter a blah outfit with accessories, but don't over-accessorize! Less is more. If you want to feel sexy, try something a little different, like a new skirt or new pair of underwear, but don't go overboard.
Smile! Making the effort to smile every once in a while will make you feel better about yourself, and make others feel positive. You can even practice smiling in the mirror--it'll be a great start to your day and set you off in the right mood. You never know who is appreciating your smile!
Stand up straight. This makes you look like you respect yourself, and others will follow your lead.
Understand the value of inner beauty. There are "pretty" people in this world, and after talking to a few of them, you can begin to think that they aren't so pretty. A bad attitude towards others can make you seem really ugly inside, and make people stop paying attention to who you are on the outside. So remember that all the makeup in the world won't help if you are unhappy and nasty. Respect yourself, respect others and you will feel great.
Feel good about yourself. When you feel good, you look good. People are attracted to and feel comfortable with people who respect themselves. Liking yourself and respecting yourself doesn't mean you are conceited, it just shows others that you care about your body. A fun, light personality makes everyone comfortable. Be yourself, be warm to others, and feel great. Soon enough, others are bound to notice.
If your friends give you positive compliments, don't try to change them into negative ones, accept them and use them to make you feel even better. Expressing a modest "thank you" is much healthier than putting yourself down.
Exercise. Everyone loves someone who respects themselves and cares for their body. Looking great doesn't mean makeup and clothes and all that jazz, it means feeling good about yourself and staying healthy. Exercise for an hour or half hour at the least every day, and drink 8 glasses of water daily. The water helps you get a nice glow in your skin and makes your complexion much more clearer. If you don't have time to get to the gym one day, try incorporating 40 minutes of brisk walking - this can be as simple as walking around on coffee and lunch breaks for 20 minutes at a time or even walking to work or school instead of driving or taking the bus. Any sports that you find interesting are nice, but if you don't play a sport find an exercise that fits you.
Get enough sleep. This will help you to always look your best. Regular sleeping patterns help your body to effectively regenerate and feel great the next day! Remeber every night you get less then 7 hours of sleep you gain half a pound!

Tips
Drink plenty of water each day, and eat nutritious foods such as fish, fruit, veggies, and whole-grains. Your skin will glow. If you have acne-prone skin, do a tree tea oil steam facial. The steam will open up your pores and the tree tea oil will help your acne disappear. Try going in the sauna occasionally as well. Make sure to wash your face with a cleanser made for your type of skin after doing a steam facial or taking a sauna. After washing your face, apply an oil free moisturizer.
Hair only belongs on four places; your head, your eyelashes, arms, and your eyebrows. Wax or shave your legs, and underarms, and other parts where you have unnecessary hair. Waxing lasts longer and usually works better. It is best to get waxing done at salons.
Get color contacts to make them look nicer. Light eyes and dark hair looks better than light hair light eyes.
Keep your nails looking nice. Get your nails done at least 2 times a month. If you cannot afford constant trips to the salon, do your nails at home. French manicures are not as hard to do as they seem. Don’t forget about your toes!
Always wash your hair. Keep it shiny and healthy-looking
by using the right shampoos. Make sure to use conditioners and anti-frizz serums. If you have frizz, prone your hair. If you don't want or dont have time to shower in the mornings, shower the night before and do the styling in the morning. This way, you might still have time to take a quick shower with a shower cap (so you dont have to wash your hair). You can braid your hair while its still wet, so that creates flirty waves the next morning, or you can straighten your hair. Brush through your hair and decide how you want to style it. Decide which styles flatter your face's shape the most, and which face shape make you feel good.
Try your perfumes (if you have them), and see what makes you feel best. Also, you can try body lotions, or body splashes. Ones that tend to make people feel best are shimmery ones. If you do spray yourself with perfume, please do not overdo it. Spritz yourself once or twice on your wrist, rub that wrist onto the other wrist, and then onto your elbows and neck. That creates a hint of scent, which is sexy.
Take care of your lips. Use a medicated chapstick, and add lipgloss when appropriate.
Shoes with heels will make your legs look amazing; if those aren't possible, wear some funky tennis shoes.
If you want your butt to look extra good, wear jeans with no back pockets.
Look at yourself in the mirror. What are your best features? Your legs? Your hair? Your mouth? Your shoulders? Now, think of ways you can enhance those features. For example, if you have great hair, wash it every other day to make it shinier. For long legs, make sure you shave everday, so you can show off those legs in mini skirts or cool shorts (if the weather allows). For great shoulders or bone structure, you can wear shirts that show off those things, like halter tops.
Take a long, not-too-hot bath every night. It helps to relax you, so you will radiate happiness, giving you a great glow.
If you're ever feeling down about how you look, go out to dinner with a few of your friends. Good friends are there to listen, cheer you up, and keep you laughing.
If you're happy inside, it'll show up on the outside. Do things you enjoy --- go to a concert, wear purple shoes, play with puppies, whatever floats your boat!
Confidence is one of the sexiest things in the world. Embolden yourself! Keep your posture straight and your head up --- this creates the image that you know exactly who you are, what you want, and where you're going. Wear a different shade of eyeshadow. Re-decorate your room. Strike up conversations with strangers. Be bold, but don't be careless about it -- know your limits. Know that you are beautiful in your very own unique way, and that being pretty does not have to mean looking like everyone else.
BE YOUR SELF!

Warnings
Don't go overboard with the makeup. Looking natural, without a ton of makeup, can make you realize that you do not need it. You can look so beautiful by "just by being yourself". Always think twice as to whether or not you actually need to apply makeup all over your entire face... chances are that you do not. Apply a conceler instead and blend evenly around any blemishes or discolourations. Cover afterwards with a loose powder to even things out. Remember that a great smile is a wonderful asset, so take care of your teeth and see a dentist regularly.
Remember beauty is subjective. Even if most of the world thinks you're ugly, if you're at least lucky, someone might think you're attractive. Don't miss your chance to enjoy that person's attraction. So if you're naturally not beautiful, which you probably aren't, then makeup won't really help; it will only make the situation worse because it makes you look like everyone else.
Beware of marketing scams that say that you will be beautiful or feel better about yourself if you get this product. It's not true. And never be fooled by beautiful models--getting a ferrari won't make you become skinny like that gorgeous girl on the billboard.
Don't change your interests or values just because the outside of you is getting a makeover. You don't have to stop loving dogs or cooking toffee just because you decided to straighten your hair every day.

Things You'll Need
Moisturizer for your skin type.
Shampoo and conditioner for your hair type.
Hair products to address issues such as frizz, dryness, etc.
Tweezers
Exfoliating scrub