Women Fantasizing about Other Men?

Question

Yet another form of hyporisy.
And i am for neither.

I was looking at these forums and noticing a trend...
If a guy is fantasizing about another woman (not wife
or gf ) and masturbating or staring at her what have
you it is okay...

However i came across a few questions about
some guys girlfriend whom he caught her masturbating
to the picture of some male celebrity. He was really
ticked off, a bunch of guys answered saying to dump
her because he should be the only eye candy for
her and she doesn't love him. Gee where have
I heard this before?

Maybe both sexes should refrain from this behavior
when they are married if it hurts the others feelings
but geez why are men so hypocritical about it.
Its okay and natural for them but not women?
When a woman does it its betrayal? How is
it not betrayal when he does it?

either way its wrong behavior no matter who
is doing it.

Answer 1

Male ego.but alot of women fantisize about other men . even when their having sex with the love of their life.
Whats good for the goose is good for the gander.

Answer 2

Or either way it's normal behavior, and both sexes should lighten up.

I know it is normal to fantasize about people and situations other than our realities, and as long as it does not diminish the passion for the real thing, it's a healthy and normal outlet. My suggestion would be that these folks include some of their fantasies into their bedrooms with their monogamous partners. Peace, as always...

Answer 3

It is perfectly normal for men AND women to fantasize about other people when masturbating and/or having sex/making love/whoopee whatever one may call it. Its normal! It does not in any way shape or form mean you do not love your significant other/spouse/partner. It is not something one needs to brag about (sharing can be fun though) and a solid relationship realizes that this goes on. It is spice for the individual and yet they are still in the present w/their lover, pleasing and getting enjoyment from them!

Answer 4

Fantasizing is no big deal - secure adults can handle their partners' fantasies and might even try to indulge their partners a little. It's not betrayal until it becomes an obsession or the partner actually runs off with the fantasy lover.

Answer 5

Oh yeah, we fantasize approximately different men. possibly for me it particularly is as a results of fact I truthfully have in elementary terms been with my husband, yet I fantasize a pair of couple of fellows that i comprehend in my on a daily basis existence. i'm pleased with my husband and we've a good intercourse existence yet i assume after countless years, you sort of ask your self what it would be choose to be naughty with somebody else! poor, i comprehend!

Answer 6

its natural for men and/or women to fantasize about members of the opposite or like sex...because they are married doesnt mean that they are dead physically, a man or a woman who is in the throes of the green eyed mosnter should refrain from such behavior....go with it...share the fantasy or at least accept it....it will make your relationship stronger and easier to bear

Answer 7

i agree completly it sould be either right for both sexes or wrong for both of them. not ok for one to do it but ok for the other.
and i agree married couples shouldnt be doing it anyways


whats good for the goose is good for the gander

Answer 8

masturbation is a beautiful thing that should be enjoyed by all sexes - especially hermaphrodites. Love thyself rigorously.

Answer 9

Well said, Lady of Troy.

Answer 10

That is where honesty, trust, and caring come into a relationship you should be able to share everything. :-)