do you remember your first love or crush?

Question

was it REALLY love or was it PUPPY LOVE? did it have a happy ending (still together?) or did it badly?

Answer 1

I was in Kindergarten and his name was Tommy. I still remember him fondly, after 43 yrs.

Answer 2

I still remember my first love. That was when I was 15; I am now 41. He broke up with me, we got into a fight, he went into the Air Force, and I haven't seen or heard from him since. :( Even though we fought, I still remember him fondly. I believe it was really love, not puppy love, but I had been so badly abused in my life that I was scared to tell him how I felt (which I think drove him away) as I figured that if I told him how I felt, then he would hurt me. At that time, I associated love with pain. That's what abuse for most of your life will do to you, among other things.

Anyway, I still think of him from time to time, especially when I hear 'our song.' I never found out what happened to him, where he lives, etc. I sometimes wish I could find him, but I haven't been able to over the years. I am now in an awesome relationship with my one true love, my soul mate, and I don't want to ruin that by finding my first love.

Answer 3

It was really love, it lasted for years, but, yeah, it did finally end. Actually I was drafted by the Army. When I got back, things were just different. Stuff happens. But I've had a lot of awesome encounters with many other women after that, some also lasting for years, before I finally settled down. Been in a great marriage for more years now than I care to admit.

Answer 4

OMG! yes I do. His name was Justin and we were both in the sixth grade but he was a year or two older than me. and i remember I told my friend that I liked him alot, and she said that she would tell him and i wasn't really sure if I was okay with with that and i asked my friend when she would tell him, and she said it would be a surprise.

I remember I went on for days and days and kept asking my friend if she had asked him yet and she hadn't. Until one day in class, the bell rang and i was getting my books and all of a sudden I heard someone say "EWWW. SHE LIKES ME. SHE'S UGLY" and every one heard Justin telling me that he wouldn't date me at all. I remember how sad, and embarrassed I felt, I told my mom what happened and I told her how much I "LOVED" him and she told me to cut it out, it's only puppy love and I would get over him, and that i wasn't allowed to date anyway. Weeks passed and January had just started and that's when he started flirting with me and when February came, he asked me on valentines day if i would be his girlfriend and my stupid reply was "If that's okay with you?", and then he did the sweetest thing, he was afraid to get me chocolates because he thought i would have said no, so he put his hand in his pocket and pulled out a stick of gum, and some other hard candy. After that we broke up about three times because his ex told me he was still messing around with her but i found out she was jealous. He gave me his kinder garden ring and told me i could have it and after that i found out that i had to move to Queens from Brooklyn and i didn't tell him anything, didn't tell him bey, or give him a hug, we hadn't even kissed before,he would only give me things and hold my hand.

When I moved , i couldn't stop crying and i wrote a letter to my Friend with an extra letter in the envelope for her to give it to Justin because my Dad did not know about him and i couldn't just mail a letter to him directly.My mom found out about Justin when we were moving, she went behind a picture on the wall in my room and all these little notes and letters just spilled out. I just knew the relationship was just over . Till this day my dad still does not know anything about him, and I think the reason way I fell so hard for Justin was because all the girls wanted him and he was a trouble maker and I had really liked that. The relationship, if there was really any relationship was a puppy love thing and it defiantly was not a happy ending.I'm sure he doesn't even remember me now because I wasn't his first girlfriend but i was his only girlfriend he didn't get to kiss or say goodbye to.But I'll remember him because he was my first love.

Answer 5

Ricky! I won't add his last name. We were both 11yrs old. I could only see him when I visited my stepmother's house because he lived a few houses down from her. One wknd I was there and he'd decided we'd kiss. I didn't know. He spread a blanket in the back yard underneath a shade tree. We sat there, talked, held hands (which was just fine with me!). Then he leaned in and kissed me square on the lips! Mmmm!! I was in love! Although of course, looking back, it was just puppy love. Our relationship ended when my stepmother moved. Man I was mad at her!

Answer 6

I'm still with my first love. We have been together two years. I love him very much. I can't wait to see him again.

Answer 7

I do remember my first major crush... what a horrible 4 years that was. I just look back on it and cringe.

Answer 8

i still remember her. her name was jackie, but i called her star. we were together for 8 years. through middle school, high school my frist 2 years of college.... we did everything together. never had sex cuz we were both waiting to be married. i love her more than my life, and would give it to spend just one more day with her. she left me when i joined the army and left for basic training. said she couldnt be with someone who would serve the govt. damn... makes me cry just thinking about her... just one more day, all i would ask

Answer 9

Yes is it still in my heart cutting every time and it is a bad ending leaving good memories in my heart sick why did she do like that

Answer 10

my first love is my last love.i will be with him today.we are not yet having marriage.but lots of problems around us.main thing is we are very confident in our marriage.
anyway it is nice experience.
it is not "PUPPY LOVE"
it is "TRUEEEEEEEEEEEEE"
surely it have happy ending.