2006-07-24 16:25:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We have been swinging now for 6 years and we can honestly say to answer your question...
we don't know.
There are too many variables involved to determine if swinging is the right thing for a particular couple. Not only do they have to be close, but they have to have a lot of other traits to be successful in swinging. Do they communicate well? Can he tell when she is uncomfortable? Can she tell when he is? Do they have all of the ground rules established? Do they have the ability to stay calm when the unexpected occurs?
There are so many things to think about that it is impossible to tell if it is right for them...
BUT!!!!
We have been doing it for 6 years and we love it. We were close before we started and it just brought us closer together. We can now share things that most other couples can't do or won't do. Our ability to sense how the other one is feeling has become more developed. We've become more confident in our bodies and in our self esteem. AND!!!!! We've both become better lovers in bed with each other.
So, that's our answer. If you need any further advice about this, please feel free to ask us.
2006-07-26 10:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your serious don't, expecially with some one u know it'll ruin your friendship and your relationship if you love some one you should just find new positions and diffrent places to keep it exciting! If this is someone you dont care about go for it if you dont see each other 2gether in a few months a year have fun.
you'll make the right decsion, good luck!
2006-07-24 16:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Greeny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting married interior a three hundred and sixty 5 days of relationship somebody is a nasty theory as you have found out. incredibly whilst its a turbulent relationship. Did you think of that obtaining married could immediately enhance your relationship and right now clean up any problems? Sorry in case you probably did yet marriage isn't a therapy-excited approximately relationship subjects. in case you desire to paintings in this relationship then you definately ought to aim marriage or relationship counselling.
2016-12-10 13:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by biedrzycki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It boils down to confidence with yourself and your partner. Women are the boss in the lifestyle. For us it is a real kick and brings us closer. We have seen it go the other way. Just like skydiving it is not for everybody but does not make it wrong. We have been in it for 5 years +. It is just like having a bunch of friends with benefits.
2006-07-27 05:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by Tequila Gypsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and i have been together for almost 7 years. We have done it. We seem to be closer now. As long as you are completely honeset with each other. No secrets. It should be fine.
2006-07-24 16:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are close.. why swing... I have never heard anything possitive come from it. some almost always get jealous... then hurt... and it keeps going. Dont do it...
2006-07-24 16:28:46 · answer #6 · answered by concerned mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a couple that DID, but they aren't together any more.
2006-07-24 16:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by TheGuru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't love each other then it won't hurt the relationship.
2006-07-24 16:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by Sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋