okay, so i have two best friends and we're like the 3muskies. and their both guys. In april, one of them told me he likes me, but i have a bf and i dont like him at all like that, i told him that and he said he understood. ever since then, he acts like he can say anything to me, and i mean ANYTHING! and he asked me to kiss him, even though we would only stay friends and that i have a BF. i told him no, that it would be unfair to my boyfriend and it would be like friends with benefits. he still bugs me about it today, he wont let it go, and hes tryin to encourage me to drop my BF. the other friend is stuck in the middle, what should i do?
2006-07-24 16:24:00 · 2 answers · asked by Mandi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh this guy is pushing it. Guys today are getting savvy about relationships. They know that women like to be friends first. I think he may have liked you all along and is resentful of the fact he's been your friend but now you have a boyfriend. I am just assuming that may be where is coming from.
Most times friends can tell friends anything and he is pushing you by doing that. And yes, he was out of line, he was testing you to see how far he could get and is still testing you. It sounds like he is going to keep at it.
Tell him to Back Off! Real friends don't put their friends through this B.S. Friends understand when another needs space and RESPECT and won't push it like this guy.
Be careful, it sounds as if he has an agenda.
2006-08-01 16:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by Ding-Ding 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your friend to back off! He knows that you have a boyfriend. He's trying to take something that he cannot have. Make it very clear one more time that you have a boyfriend. If your friend is still continuing to make his moves on you, cut the friendship off! You don't need all that drama in your life. I hope my advice helps and I wish you the best of luck.
2006-07-25 01:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋