I am 27 and looking for some one new in my life. Im tired of the bar scene and the onlive services only want hookups or they are really strange. Im serious about this question any jerks or people who send derrogatory remarks will be reported.
2006-07-24 16:20:46 · 17 answers · asked by rgibson15206 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Get involved in life and meet some people with whom you share an interest. Join a bike club, go to an open-minded, supportive church, volunteer for an AIDS charity, etc. You'll meet guys. Gosh, just join a gym, you're bound to meet other gay guys! Don't worry about the boyfriend, or even about whether everyone you meet is gay. Meet enough people and the boyfriend thing will take care of itself.
2006-07-24 16:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by michael941260 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be patient, and be willing to accept things that annoy you if it comes with an otherwise great man. Nobody is perfect, and you should accept the strangeness, (unless they're strange in the I like to be vomited on kind of way). I understand how the bar scene does get boring and I sympathize. Try joining a couple of hobby groups or something where you can still meet new people but without the alcohol and presumed one night stand. good luck mate, I know he's out there, just wait.
2006-08-01 15:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by the blue olive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try meeting people through your friends and family. Look for other gay activity groups (for example Bowling leagues) in your area. The one website that I found some really cool people is www.guys4men.com. No matter where you go there are good guys and the jerks. You just have to filter through and find what you want. Best of luck to you.
2006-07-25 03:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by E Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be someone you already know... someone at work, at a store that you frequent, or even someone at church... Like some of the others have said, you have to get involved in some "gay friendly" event. You'll meet people, and their friends, etc.... Eventually you will find the right one, and maybe even have a little fun a long the way. If we knew what city you are in or near, maybe we could suggest places. I wish you good luck and happy times....
2006-08-01 16:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by taterliquor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unfortunately you and Iare in the same boat. The best way to meet people are through your friends. Problem is I don't have enough gay friends to meet anyone. If you do, get some help from them
2006-07-24 16:23:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to gay friendly events. Depending on where you live as to how many events there would be. Or look up LGBT support groups that meet in person and go there and volunteer maybe.
2006-07-31 03:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by Tragic Remedy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i met my girlfriend at a gay bar try coffee houses or the gym ya know when you least expect it the right one can be standing next to you on the street corner keep your heart and eyes open he will come along it takes patients sweetie dont give up though and good luck
2006-07-30 22:42:43 · answer #7 · answered by lady heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you should turn to your local gay and lesbian community center. Any volunteer or charity works or any kind of social or sport activities that you can join. It's much healthier than the clubs or bars.
2006-07-25 01:43:23 · answer #8 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah lok around you there's a lot out there and also depends on your preferences. If you cant fid it around you, Internet will help you. Theres a million searches out there for a potential partner and one of them will be your ideal partner. Just continue searching.
2006-07-24 18:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there, im same here too. Im tired of lookin for 1, i need a good person who can realy understands me...so if ur free pls do not hesitate to mail me, i can be ur friend. take care hope to hear from u soon.
2006-07-24 16:54:16 · answer #10 · answered by vin1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋