My boyfriend is a sweetheart and I love him to death but he is an alcoholic. He is a womanizer and he feels that when it comes to him our relationship should be open but I am not allowed to see other people. He has this lady friend that is always giving him money and she is older than him. She is ten years older. She doesn't say anything about what he does and knows that he has a girlfriend. I am tired of it because I don't like the fact that it is okay for him to have female friends but if I even dream of talking to somebody else it is a problem. I don't know what to do because I love him and I want to be with him but I feel like he is betraying me. Please HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-24 16:07:47 · 17 answers · asked by Miss Revea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have to love for who he is, unconditionally. If he is a drunk , jealous, womanizer, than love and respect him for that. That's what love is. Did you ever consider that your questioning of him is what's driving him away and making him want to get drunk all the time? I suggest you nvite his older lady friend over, you all get drunk and have a big three way party.
2006-07-24 16:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You FEEL like he's betraying you!!! There really is a sucker born every minute isn't there??!! Get some self esteem and run, don't walk, out of this relationship as fast as is humanly possible! Life is too short to settle for a loser like this, girlfriend.
2006-07-24 16:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok sweety, I am going to be honest with you. Obviously you are not enough for him. I mean, if he feels the need to to see other women, whether it is behind your back or in front of your face, then he is looking for something that he needs and you cannot supply. He will never be happy with just you, even though you feel happy with him. I honestly believe that when you find the man that you are meant to be with he will be completely happy with just you and never need to see another women. To put it simply...you do not complete him. Move on, its the best thing for you.
2006-07-24 16:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by pan2fly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and make sure you know what love is before you confess it to someone else. Do you love yourself? WHy would you let anyone treat you the way you don't want to be treated and then dump it on the next guy you meet.
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2006-07-24 16:12:14 · answer #4 · answered by Masood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl if he is cheating on you then you have to let him go. There are so many diseases out there and he may contract one and then pass it on to you. If I were in your shoes then I would let him go and see what happens. Tell him that if he wants you back then he will have to stop seeing the other woman.
2006-07-24 16:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by katie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that he really wants to be your boyfriend if he is seeing other people. The only thing you can do is lay it on the line for him and tell him it has to stop or you're done with him.
2006-07-24 16:11:29 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie i didnt even read your details
dont waste your life and tears.
you can and will love again, you can save everyone
allot of women are going to tell you that they've been here done that...listen to them...or go through the heartache and hurt...choicee is yours but either way become strong after this..
2006-07-24 16:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by truthhurts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i was u i would leave him once he knows and realizes that he really does care about u he will come back since he knows that u love him he thinks u wont leave him so he does whatever he wants so teach him a lesson....hope this helps good luck
2006-07-24 16:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. If he cannot respect your feelings & wishes, then he does not love you as you do him. Think of this as a test to see if he loves you.
2006-07-24 16:15:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM!!!! You cannot change him, fix him or get him to stop seeing other women, so either dump his butt, or have the "open" relationship that he wants.... which would be disrespectful to yourself and potentially dangerous to your health.
2006-07-24 16:12:23 · answer #10 · answered by ziz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋