Is it ok for married men to go to strip clubs?

Question

I mean, I know that they do, but how many wives are actually ok with it? And if you are ok with it, what sort of behavior do you expect from him while he is there?
If he lied to you about going would that change your feelings on it?

Answer 1

You can go to strip clubs if you take your wife with you. If she does not want to go, then drop it.

Grow up. If you were grown up enough to get married, you should be grown up enough to stop going to t!tt!e bars.

Answer 2

I have been married for five years, and I would not want my husband to go to a strip club! Some wives are OK with there men going, but I don't believe that a married men should be watchin girls dancing around topless and rubbing on men while giving lap dances when that man has pretty much the same thing settin at home waitin on him to get home from work, etc. I know sometimes someone needs a little excitement in their lives, but I honestly don't think it should come from going to strip clubs. Spice up your marriage and give your spouse a strip show, or ask for a lap dance from your wife, that should be the only person you see naked, unless it's on television for the rest of your life. If my husband wanted to lie to me about going then yes I would be totally upset, and feel like I should be paying more attention to my husband or making sure his needs are met by me, but if he goes to strip clubs without me knowing thats a trust issue. If he feels going to strip clubs he should be on his best behavior, but only if it's for a bachelor party, not for his own satisfaction!

Answer 3

Go with him- Of course feelings would change if he lied. There is never a good reason to lie to your spouse, and if you have to, then you shouldn't be doing what you're doing. Those places are for looky no touchy but leave your wallet in her g-string. As long as he's not spending our kids college tuition, then what's the problem?? It's an occasional bachelor party, not a weekly obsession. Go with him- they love it when men bring their wives. Let them get him all hot and bothered, and then see if you make it all the way home before climbing in the backseat. If he won't bring you, then that's another issue altogether. You have to have trust, without it- you have nothing.

Answer 4

I would say yes its cool if my husband went to one. After all women go to male revues too all the time. The kind of behavior I'd expect is well behaved, but I also live in the real world and know that guys get lap dances and stuff all the time. Women get alot more at the revues as well, so I really don't see the harm of a lap dance or two. If it gets him horny enough to jump my bones, I'm all for it. I wouldn't change my feelings about it if he lied about going, but you have to look deeper as to why does he have to feel he has to lie about it in the first place. Is he lying to cover for a friend or is there something wrong in our relationship that he can only get from a strip place?

Answer 5

I woudln't like it because it would degrade me. I would like him to be honest with me, most importantly. Hey some wives don't even mind going with you as long as you are honest with them and if they say know have a little common sense and don't go. You should have enough action with your wife. If not spice it up. However, devaluing her and goingto a strip club or even thinking about another woman stripping kinda hurts. Just think about your wife stripping! You both win. You get someone to strip but it's the one person you love and you are not hurting her.

Answer 6

I expect him to look at breasts and butts, and get some boobs thrown in his face, and bond with his friends. I'm ok with it, as long as he isn't initiating these trips to the strip club. I expect him to not act like a sleaze bag and try to get a happy ending.

I have great breasts though, so I don't worry that he'll find those girls bodies more attractive than mine. If he lied about it, I'd be pissed. I hate dishonesty.

Answer 7

Even if a wife says she's okay with it, she probably isn't. When a guy goes to a strip club it's telling his wife that a) she doesn't turn him on enough (even if he tells her otherwise) and b) it's okay that some women strip for men (would you want your wife or daughter to do that?).

Would you be okay with your wife going to a strip club featuring male dancers doing lap dances and the like?

Lying makes it 100 times worse.

Answer 8

There is no law or rule stating married men cannot go to strip clubs. But if it becomes habitual, then there is a problem. I also believe it would depend on the woman's level of self-esteem. If she is confident in herself and the relationship she has with her spouse, i don't see a problem.

Answer 9

oh yea its is totally all right for you to go to the strip club as long as you are still going to be coming home to your wife at the end I am married myself I am female and I even go to strip clubs without my husband just remember that you do have a wife that loves you and will want you back do what you want at the strip club after all you could have even more fun with your wife once you get home

Answer 10

I think it is a OK as long as there is trust and openness in the marriage.Woman maybe have to go shopping or anything that will spoil herself while man go to the strip club.

Answer 11

No No No!! That is my opinion, anyways!! My ex husband used to lie to me, he would actually START FIGHTS so he'd have an excuse to leave home and go out to one! My current husband lied to me about them while we were dating, but we've been married 13 years now and he doesn't go. I consider it a form of cheating. I mean, how many men would be okay with a man swinging their d*** in their wifes face??