Just found my (Pagan) Ex has coerced a Salvo lass to join him in organising Sex parties in Brisbane (Australia). I'm struggling to raise his kid & he's off spending money hand over fist.
Does anyone have any suggestions?
2006-07-24 16:03:41 · 7 answers · asked by Rai A 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's totally ignored the kid. They've spoken twice over the phone in the past 7 weeks.
2006-07-24 16:11:32 · update #1
You may not feel this way now but in the end it's best he's not a part of your child's life. He has a sick mind and nothing is beneath him. God only knows what goes on at them parties and I would not want my child anywhere near him. The money he spends for this won't last forever and you have something worth more than all the money in the world....your child.
2006-07-24 16:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a pad of paper and start Documenting everything! Get a voice recorder and record every phone call you have with him. He cant deny his own voice in court. Dont let him know you are recording him either. Get a camera that records the date on pictures and use it when you can.
You want to be able to say "On July 24th 2006 i found out through a mutual friend mr smith was doing blah blah blah". You dont want to sound like this "well, i think sometime in july mr smith was doing blah blah because our friends said blah blah".
maybe after a year of documentation you can take him back to court and request more child support.
good luck!
2006-07-24 23:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
News Flash: You cannot control the Pagan any longer. Let's not think about the money right now, let's take a moment to focus on the "kid". Hmmm...I wonder how this is affecting HIM?
2006-07-24 23:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by julesl68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe with an ex like that the kids are better off without him. Who knows how long it will be before he gets a disease. Look for a good daddy role model. Good luck.
2006-07-24 23:33:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Ziggunerin and Free Angel
2006-07-24 23:17:30 · answer #5 · answered by yoohoosusie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats so wrong. Can i have the address of the parties?
2006-07-24 23:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce
2006-07-25 09:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋