Interracial Dating: Why are Black Women so vicious towards nice African American guys who date White Women?

Question

Why are White Men and Black Women in this country so racist against interracial relationships between African American Men and White Women? A European girlfriend of mine asked me one day, “Why are White Men and Black Women in this country so racist?” And she went on to say, “I notice they both hate to see African American men and White Women in interracial relationships.” I first laughed a bit because she was not the only person who had asked me that question; I also laughed because White Men and Black Women probably isn’t aware that many other cultures notice this. I explained to her why a large percentage of White Guys – not all – but a large majority are so angry about this; and why it’s a cultural norm for Black Women to be angry about this. I told her that men, by nature are attracted to femininity - and women, by nature are attracted to masculinity. White, Asian and other cultures of women have an innocence and a femininity that Black Women don’t have and can’t compete with because it’s been taken away from them and they’ve been hardened by their experience throughout history; and African American Men have a style, a rhythm, a sexuality and a masculinity that racially-competitive White Men and many other cultures of men don’t have and can’t compete with. I’ve traveled to many countries and noticed African American Rap and R&B music to be very popular and being played on many of the radio stations in those countries. This music, style and unique form of masculinity is very popular and it attracts women (as well as allot of the very pretty and beautiful ones) from many different cultures and it makes many macho-racially-competitive men who are incapable of assimilating or competing with it very jealous. The relationships between African American Men and White and Asian Women is a natural attraction of masculinity and femininity as well as compatibility.

First, I would like to say that I’m not at all apologetic for my question and for what I say, because what I say is intended for a very specific group. Some of my good friends are White Guys and I would never say or do anything to hurt or insult them, and they are cool with my relationship. But I’m not at all apologetic to the jealous, racist people who I described.
I’m very blunt because I feel, if racist people have no shame in how they behave, why should I have any shame in how I address them and their behavior.

Answer 1

Jealousy

Answer 2

Wow, that was a mouthful. But it is funny - I sort of have the same theory. Or mine is more that there is a hierarchy of testosterone, with black men at the top, and Asian men at the bottom. Of course there are many more WITHIN group differences than between group differences, I'm attracted to men of all ethnicities (although I must admit I haven't seen MANY Asian men that I've found attractive. There are some though.) And I have seen a lot of attractive black women around - but maybe if guys like petite, delicate looking girls, they don't find as many black women as attractive as they do girls of other ethnicities. However I don't find that skinny, petite, unathletic, delicate type female to be more beautiful than a more muscluar, athletic looking, curvy female, in fact I think the latter is more attractive. Then again, I'm not a lesbian, so I don't know if my opinion on that counts. I've dated guys of different ethnicities - Armenian, white, Argentinian, and my current boyfriend is black. I am not very observant, so I don't notice many people looking at us strangely. Then again I live in L.A., so I think people here are very used to inter-racial dating. I work with a lot of black women, and I don't think they are against my boyfriend and I dating at all. I think though, that is because they know me, and know that I'm not that typical white girl who only dates black men. I don't know what they are saying behind my back though. I don't care - my boyfriend and I match up somehow. I'm white and listen to 102.3, he's black and listens to music that a 35 year old white lesbian would listen to.

Answer 3

According to the 2013 Census judging how 80% of black women are single. It seems like there are NO nice black men for BLACK WOMEN.

Answer 4

It's all about the motives of both parties. I'm Afro-American. I believe love does not see color as an issue therefore not all white men, black women or other races feel this way.

+T+

Answer 5

Sorry, too much generalizing...

i can personally assure you that there are black women in this world that are very feminine and very sweet and charming...

you may want to consider meeting a woman with African ancestry
that hates rap and R&B...

Answer 6

I'm not jealous. If they love the person then it shouldn't matter. I've been confused about this question also...I guess some people feel the need of entitlement, for what? I have no freaking clue...maybe I'm just the oddball in the bunch :)

Answer 7

This sounds a little bit vain.

edit: loved your other two questions, "why do black women behave like desperate savages towards..." and " why do black women behave so desperately towards... "
no modesty in your family, cause you got it all, right!

Answer 8

I think it goes much, much farther back. Deep down they are probably, not knowingly, instinctively, trying to preserve the purity of their race. And I don't see anything wrong with that. I don't see anything wrong either way actually. But thats my belief.

Answer 9

I dont know, I could care less what anyone else does. I have an idea though, hook me up with one of those jealous black girls.

Answer 10

Jealousy, as well as bigotry on the part of white-American men, as well as black-American women.