He is legally seperated from his wife and they both agree they need a divorce, she is with another man and was before I even talked to this guy.. we have been talking several hours a day for months.. He thinks we should move in together already and we have not met face to face but see eachother all the time and talk on the voice chat thing.. what should I do??
2006-07-24 15:12:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well I wouldnt move in with this guy right away. He needs to get his divorce over with first. Even if she is with another man, she could still fry him if you were to move in. This sounds like my case. Except for the moving in part. Same thing happened to me.
2006-07-24 15:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by stampedefocus2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being somewhat older (I assume...45) I would advise to to meet this person and see how things go first. I moved in with a boyfriend at 23 who was medically discharged from the army. I found out after I was engaged and moved in with him that he was prone to extremely violent tendency's and had severe brain damage.
2006-07-24 15:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by Marsha W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because u don't know what might be in his closet. U don't know really anything about him other than speaking 2 him on the phone. I would make sure everything is legit 1st. Tell him u want 2 get 2 know him and his ways before u move in.
2006-07-24 15:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by shortyb5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't move in with him. Give it time after he gets home to determine how being in Iraq has affected him. Also, remember he is not divorced yet and you don't know what went on not to make his marriage work.
2006-07-24 15:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u think that your relationship is that serious than I would. If you think you know him that well. Be careful though, I would wait and see what happens with the divorce. Do you know the reason for their divorce?
2006-07-24 15:16:36 · answer #5 · answered by luvinmjc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did I hear right? You never met this guy and you want to move in? Youre a QueenBee, act like one
2006-07-24 15:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont move in give it time at least until his divorce is final and if you still feel the way you do right now then go ahead and try it...
2006-07-24 15:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, ever, ever, ever, EVER agree to do something so serious with someone (a) you've never met, and (b) has not concluded his current relationship. You're asking for trouble if you go along with this.
2006-07-24 15:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by Dee M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not.You hardly know him.You just know what he's told you.He could be a psycho or something.
2006-07-24 15:18:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is very lonely right now, so please do not rush into living together just yet. Set a time frame maybe!!!!
2006-07-24 15:16:45 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋