have you ever wanted to call it quits? end your life? im not trying to be funny. please, i have a plan, and im ready to go. deep down inside, i hope someone can say the right thing. if not, im sorry.
2006-07-24 15:11:27 · 8 answers · asked by charlie_walks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are solutions to the problems you don't think you have answers for.
Seek external expertise from sources you have not explored before.
I looked at some of your other answers to try to get a hint of your mindset and problem solving approaches. Coincidently, 3 days ago, you and I both gave answers for "ldkurn l"s question of: "If you had to choose, would you give up the love of your life to fulfill a dream?"
My answer was crazy long, but if you read it, you might see that sometimes there are more problem solving methods and optional answers than you might currently infer.
You are doing a GOOD JOB of asking for help. I encourage you to continue to talk to real people and ask for help.
You are not alone. And there are good answers to the questions you are asking.
(One additional comment after reading the first 8 answers to this question - Look at all the people ready to help. Look at how they have many helpful ideas from different perspectives. I was really impressed with the caring and insight.)
2006-07-24 15:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by snoopy_jump 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If deep down inside you hope someone can say the right thing, then that must mean you still have hope about your life.
I don't know your situation, but your question makes my heart break. I don't know you and probably never will, but I no that your life has value and that you're a person who deserves a good life and to achieve their dreams.
If you're in a bad situation, find some way to get out. I've been in situations in my own life where I felt that there wasn't any use in struggling, and I mean really bad and low places where I didn't even feel like a person anymore. And even though those feeling lasted for a while and it was a long, slow, hard climb out--I made it and now I love my life.
Please don't give up. From one human being to another, I love and care for you as a fellow person. Tell yourself that you deserve love, happiness, and all that comes with those things. Tell yourself over and over until you can get some hope from it. Then, decide what path you need to take in life to get that love and happiness.
God bless you.
2006-07-24 15:24:04 · answer #2 · answered by just4funyall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. I mean everyone wants to call it quits at some time. I certainly have because of circumstances I had no control over. However, I realized just that. . . I had NO CONTROL over what others did but I DID have control over what I did and how I reacted and I was determined that NO ONE ELSE would control my life, my emotions, my sucess or lack of it, my relationship with other people and God.
Have I been deep down in the depths. Yes when my son was taken out of my home due to an abuse against him that he eventually took out on others. I thought my life was over. I wondered how could some one do that to him and to me and to his mother. I blamed myself for not being more watchful and a better parent. I was ready to out life then. . . but see above.
It took me a while to get there, but the thing that kept me going (not a good thing) was my anger at the perpetrator.
You can make it. Determine NOT to let others influence your life. You can pull yourself out of the garbage and stand up straight and proud.
PS as I was "coming back" my new church family helped me tremendously. I recommend it.
2006-07-24 15:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had those thoughts more than once in my life. I have sat and actually wrote a note to leave behind. The only thing that convinced me not to do it is the thought of how much I would hurt the people I left behind, I couldn't be that selfish. The pain I was feeling I would not want my parents, my friends, my family and anyone else to feel if I left this earth. People would feel so guilty and think why couldn't they see I was hurting so bad, what could of they done to stop me, I didn't want people to have to live with those feelings because of me. I was also very scared of burning in hell for killing myself. I know it hurts now and feels as if it can't get any worse but hang in there.
2006-07-24 15:17:56 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I guess You could say I was ready to go.Tried to hang myself when I was 16. I have been ready to go most of my life.Almost drowned 5 times.Always saved by someone.Had a gun to my head several times. It is all caused from depression.Have to many problems to mention.I am 56 years old with 2 children and 2 grand children.My wife takes care of my ailing father and mother and myself. I am disabled.I want to die every now and then.(THEN I THINK.) HOW MUCH THEY WOULD MISS ME. NOT HOW MUCH I WOULD MISS THEM.That is what you have to think about.Think about others. NOT YOURSELF.
2006-07-24 15:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've lost a family member to suicide, due to the loss of that person, now my father is suicidal. He can't handle the pain of the loss of this person. It effected so many life's. It's impossible to have any kind of closure when you lose someone to suicide!
Please think of the ones who truly love you! How they would be forever devastated. I've known people to feel this way, and I have seen them get past it. It takes time, but you will get past these feelings. Just remember every time you feel this way, you have to talk to someone. Don't keep these feelings to yourself. That is the worse thing you can do. Good luck...:)
2006-07-24 15:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by Emily :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah many times but then again we can't run away from life. wh have to face it n fight it.
2006-07-24 16:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by Leonardo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope cause my god doesnt give me anything that he and i cant handle. that which doesnt kill you only makes you stronger...
2006-07-24 15:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋