me and this guy have been shy to talk to each other for about a month and finally a friend had us meet in the same place and we talked exchanged numbers and have been talking ever since for like two weeks we went out once we've been close with each other hugging, kissing.......etc i don't want to pressure him but when is the right time to ask about his feelings towards me?
2006-07-24 15:09:57 · 22 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
males are by nature, Do-ers. If he likes you, he SHOWS you that he likes you. (hugs kisses, talking to you) If he Didn't like you, he wouldn't do those things. Go with your gut. Be yourself. And Don't ask him unless his behavior changes suddenly. (DON'T have "intimate relations" to KEEP him, or to PROVE that YOU like him... all that ever proves is how gullable you are for His attention.)
2006-07-24 15:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi darling,two weeks is too soon,he Willl run and all u will see is a cloud of smoke.You will know by the way he looks at you,whether he is a player or a nice guy.,and whether he is interested in you for you and not just the wild thing!!!Use your womanly instincts,go ask women in the family about guys if that is possible.At least they wil tell u the truth.Your young move on if this doesn't work,don't put yourself out there as no-one wants a used old shoe My mum's words).You may be a virgin for all I know.If he is cute try it out and if he isn't into you move on.good luck.
2006-07-24 15:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by fairie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation. Personally, I would play it cool and let thing evolve in their own time. You don't want to rush the man before he is ready or you might scare him away, which is something you don't want to do. It's only been a few weeks, go out have fun and learn who each of you are. You will know when it's right to tell him.
2006-07-24 15:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by hvnly_spector 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really comes down to the right moment as opposed to the right day, night, or week. Wait until the conversation is light and you two are giggling or joking around and laughing. As you end a laugh, say something to the effect of "I really like you. I think you're great". And see what reaction you get. Don't deal with it straight on, like your giving him the 3rd degree.
2006-07-24 15:14:31 · answer #4 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your hugging and kissing again.........ask him where does he see things are going? If he doesn't know where things are going or how he feels, it would be good if you told him how you feel and where you think things are going to give him an idea. Early open communication is always a good sign from personal experience.
2006-07-24 15:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no minimum or maximum for time as long as the guy knew that the girl likes it, then he will ask for a date.
2006-07-24 15:13:51 · answer #6 · answered by FRAGINAL, JTM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where your at, but right now its too hot to doing anything. I would wait till it cools down some to start a relationship.
2006-07-24 15:16:48 · answer #7 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You run the risk of scaring him off, but if you really want to know you should ask in a direct manner.
2006-07-24 15:14:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it really depends on the guy's personality. Why don't you wait, and if you think he's taking too long. Ask him out.
2006-07-24 15:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell do u mean? if ur hugging and kissing and stuff and u went out once then clealry u guys are going out !!!
2006-07-24 15:13:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋