i want to get married so bad, but i'm too young. I all the time wish i was married. I want to do all the stuff that i should expect. laundry, dishes cleaning, taking care of children. The only thing is my age, i'm 16. That is like my life long goal in life except my religion. How can i kill this "craving"?
2006-07-24 15:02:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
barbie, you cant and shouldnt kill the want or the dream. the problem you need to deal with is and ask yourself do i want a real and lasting marriage or do i want a marriage that is statiscally destin to fail.???? not to mention if you love kids what will happen if you marry a young man who isnt grown up as you are and you two do get a divorce how it will destroy your childrens life. now if you want a real lasting and loving marriage and the whole fairytale of happily ever after you have to take your time and explore diffrent guys to decide which is best suited to take on a real love and marriage and again statistically speaking women who wait till they are around 25 to 27 stand a better chance of a long happy marriage. dont be so eager to rush into it or your dreams will be destroyed and you only get one shot at being married once to the love of your life...... i hope with all the maturity that you asked this question you will also take the advice that most of us give in here tonight ... good luck youll make some one very happy
2006-07-24 15:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by joe 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please wake up and look around you. There are so many young people getting married and divorce is so highly rated. Today it is so easy to get a divorce. Life is to short for you to be wishing yours away. Marriage is like a job. A really stressful job!! Save all that for later when you have had time to experience life. It isn't the rose bed you've imagined. Get a puppy to love on and help your mom or whoever you live with with the laundry, dishes, and get a job babysitting. I hope you keep asking questions and make good decisions. Good Luck!!!
2006-07-24 22:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by lisalou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
question how old would you want to get married and how old person you want marry to???? I little worry here so can you tell me it is greenbaypackers1920@yahoo.com. It good to see that but it going to be hard to find a man that do the same and loving you back and giver and go to religion with you and not cheat on you and suppor tyou ya kno what I mean? My wife and i married for 9 years and have 2 small children. also we first married is back 1997 june haha. until 1997 Oct got married and now very happy. hope you find somoene really treat you respec t and return loving to you smilie.
2006-07-24 22:25:23 · answer #3 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't kill the craving, but do it in a smart way. Don't settle for just anyone, let God lead you to the one He has chosen for you to marry. I have been in your shoes before, years ago, and I have three wonderful children and a husband that I totally adore, but I rushed things when I was your age and wound up kissing a lot of toads before I found my prince. Go to college, figure out who you are on the inside before you get married, that way you won't feel like you have missed out on things in life.
2006-07-24 22:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by hvnly_spector 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i can say is marriage isn't all that great.
U can do all those things without getting married.
Don't idealize marriage, its the most foolish thing to do. You are young. First try dating and living on your own and when the time is right and u found the right person, u can get married.
But life can be great without being married.
2006-07-24 22:08:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get rid of any life goals you have. Just realize that people who want to be doctors must wait and go to school for many years before they do anything. There's a right time for everything.
2006-07-24 22:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you want to play "house" not get married. Go to college and become an independent person so that when you meet the right guy, and then when it doesn't work out, you will be able to stand on your own two feet.
2006-07-24 22:07:39 · answer #7 · answered by RIVER 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you think marrying early will alleviate you of the responsibilities of adulthood. That you will rely on your husband - so that you can avoid making decisions.
I realize you may not like my answer, but I think you're doing yourself a disservice by not exploring other things like an education and career before you think about settling down.
Ultimately, it's your life. Then you will be responsible for your children someday, and I think they deserve an educated mother who could take care of them (in case daddy couldn't). Think about it.
2006-07-24 22:12:09 · answer #8 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a book about it. You have many years to want to do all that. The point is everyone wants what they don't have. Write a short story or book about your life as a wife. You never know, you may be the next Judy Blume!!!
2006-07-24 23:23:12 · answer #9 · answered by Heather C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look being married is not fun at all , i have being married for almost 9 yrs i got married at a early age at 21 , just go to school and finsh and go to college and maybe u will get married
2006-07-24 22:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋