I need some help..Sometime's I feel so insecure at myself. Will this feeling wear off over time, and if not, what can I do so I don't feel like this? Does anyone else ever feel like this?
2006-07-24 14:52:11 · 8 answers · asked by stephygirl4ever 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Insecurity is a common feeling... we're human. The feeling may wear off over time, but why wait? You can do some things now. First, observe those times when you are feeling insecure and try to determine what caused those initial feelings. It could be something someone said or did to you. Second, build your confidence by doing good work in all you do... chores at home, school work, charitable work, etc. (If you're not doing these things, you should! You can build confidence and learn responsibility at the same time!) Third, talk to your closest friend about how you feel... ask them questions and try to figure out when they are insecure. Fourth, keep a diary of ALL your feelings... you'll discover that insecurity doesn't dominate all the other feelings combined. Fifth, if you get super concerned, consult a physician. Good luck!
2006-07-24 14:59:38 · answer #1 · answered by Mike S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, it all depends what you're insecure about. Sometimes shopping takes it away,sometimes fishing guys for compliments does. It all depends on what makes you feel better which is also dependent on what's wrong in the first place.
Sometimes it wears off, sometimes it doesn't It all depends on the root of your problem.
2006-07-24 21:55:03 · answer #2 · answered by erin2cool1983 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will wear off and yes i do feel like that sometimes to
2006-07-24 21:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by butterfly_laffytaffy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there r times when i feel insecure bout myself & sometimes bout other people my advise talk 2 some1 bout it,ur mind will ease...
2006-07-24 23:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by sweetheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you lack in confidence and need to build that up. this article has some great reading on low self esteem and depression that will help you better.
2006-07-24 22:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do sometimes and it actualy helps to pamper your self
also even though it sounds hoky tell your self you are wonderfull!
the cach is that you actualy have to beleve it!
also if you have friends constantly putting you down, even if they dont mean anything by it! you have to put a stop to it!
2006-07-24 21:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by Jules 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,I feel like that know.It will pass on by.Have a nice day honie...
2006-07-24 21:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are u??? when i was in 6th n 7th grade i was alWAYSSS insecure... n 8th grade, i was like yO.... u wanna mess with me??? lol it wears off trust me... bUTTT in can pop up in many diff times of yur life.
2006-07-24 22:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by iyikka14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋