Ok well I'm a 14 year old girl. I think I might be bi, but I'm not sure. I have had probly two boyfriends and no girlfriends. I feel attracted to girls almost as much as to guys. For the past year i have been questioning it. I recently met someone who I found out is bi and this made me question myself more. I don't want answers like don't try and label yourself or anything like that, I need serious answers here. Thank you for your help
2006-07-24 14:31:35 · 7 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
There are only two other bi girls in my town. both have bfs and I wouldn't go out either of em anyway.
2006-07-24 14:51:02 · update #1
I have to agree with all the others, you are just curious right now, and that's okay, totally normal.
I wouldn't say make-out or date another girl yet, but if you want, try kissing another girl, then if you don't get any feelings, you know you only like men .etc.
that way you don't get into a relationship and all that only to realize you don't like girls at all. ( and you don't want to be hurt, or hurt anyone else)
and some wise advice....be who you are, regardless of what other people might think, or things they might say. :-)
2006-07-24 15:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by Jennie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess the almost same thing happened to me when I was 13. What i did was I tryed having a girl friend for a while. It fealt right to me so i decided I was bi. What you need to do is try if it feels right then your bi. More power to ya
2006-07-24 21:38:23 · answer #2 · answered by SexyLilChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definately say bi-curious as well...14 I think is a little too young to know what sexual orientation you are...I am 26 and bi...I only discovered my bi feelings 5 or 6 years ago...I would tell you to explore your feelings a little more before you definately decide one way or the other
2006-07-24 23:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by kendra26nj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be more bi-curious than bi. It's normal for teens to question their sexuality and whatnot. Give it a try. ate a girl and see what happens.
2006-07-24 21:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look your only 14 to know what you want actually. but if your so unsure maybe try having a relationship with a girl and youll see
2006-07-24 21:36:59 · answer #5 · answered by bolego_118 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to make up your mind now, take your time to grow up, you might be surprised where you are and how much you've changed in a few years time.
2006-07-24 23:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by Michaelsgdec 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only have to figure that on your own but here are a few sites that i recomend
HRC.org
Pflag.org
Actup.org
out.com
2006-07-24 21:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by rgibson15206 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋