Serious question. Everyone changes careers a numbr of times throughout their life. If you met someone you liked, and she was caring, loving, and all around decent person, would she be "marriage material" if she at one time had done adult films, but moved on and was doing something much more mundane? Would you have expectation beyond that of an "ordinary" woman. keeping in mind it was just a job?
2006-07-24
14:27:52
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I have to add, I don't mean just "date," I really mean would you even consider long-term.
2006-07-24
14:39:16 ·
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Well, unlike most of your answerers, porn does attract people with defects - both as actors and as viewers.
But ... if she had been out of the business for sufficient time, and if she knew why she had got in there in the first place, and she knew that it was no longer for her ... then it would be "mostly" irrelevant. She would have to manage the subject so it wasn't always a recurring theme in conversation. If it was a mistake in the past - discuss it, then keep it in the past. Beyond that, she's a person that you could then hit it off with.
And, yes, of course a man would have expectations. That doesn't mean she should be a webcam star on Yahoo! Messenger - but she sure as h*ell shouldn't try to act like some virgin or prude - that would be ridiculous. Expectations would exist - what they would be would differ from guy to guy. But expectations would be there ... and the relationship would be good if the sex obviously just flowed and the expectations never really came up.
Good luck ... what was your stage name?
( lol ).
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2006-07-24 14:46:56
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answered by robabard 5
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First she on no account acted nor grew to become into an actress, porn isn't a 'skills'. Now that it fairly is cleared up, it fairly is a job and in comparison to having intercourse with somebody you adore. I recommend fairly, as long as you have been examined for ailments it fairly is all i may well be apprehensive approximately. those men on those porns are screwing a woman, they yell cut back, she has her makeup touched up, hair touched up, he's staying stressful via a fluffer lady and then they shop on. Is it like that throughout the mattress room with you? maximum of those chicks do not even ***, maximum of them are too drugged out to even see without delay. If she has reformed into somebody good, supply it a raffle.
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answered by ? 4
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for sure,because the reason you marry some one is because you love them. and judging by the amount of young actresses you se on the internet these days its not such a big deal as in the past.
2006-07-24 14:33:08
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answered by Anonymous
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Yeah I think so. I mean we all have to make a living somehow and if you really have true love for one another - what should it matter? Whether your making love with a lover or making love to make money, when you truly make love to the "one" you really love - that's all that matters.
2006-07-24 17:05:15
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answered by ur_ave_joe 3
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She's still human right? Doing adult films didn't make her lose an arm or grow fangs correct? I don't see why not... she' experienced, so she has no expectations of you either....
2006-07-24 14:31:59
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answered by DarthFangNutts 5
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Marry her, so what if she does adult films for a living, shes everything you want, no ones perfect.
2006-07-24 14:31:52
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answered by daydream♥believer 4
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I would. I'd even watch her movies with her. But I'd respect her more if she hadn't been faking her orgasms on camera.
And yes, I'd have expectations: I'd expect her to be very sexually experienced, and openminded.
2006-07-24 15:14:01
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answered by Anonymous
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You love women for who they are now. Not for who they were in the past.
2006-07-24 14:31:40
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answered by asbratcher 4
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May-be why?
2006-07-24 14:32:24
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answered by Nick 4
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I dont think it would bother me - if it was in her past..
2006-07-24 14:30:37
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answered by ? 2
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