I moved away from my friends about 3 months ago to be closer to my family. Now one of my closest friends at least I thought she was will not talk or email me. I know everyones life is busy but i still want to be friends with her. She tought me so much.
2006-07-24 14:21:41 · 13 answers · asked by imsorry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
One can't force someone to love you, can't force someone to miss you, and can't force someone to be your friend.
Communication is most important. If she wont bother telling you what's bothering her- then sh*t- It's her own damn lost. She needs to open up.
Most likely my guess would be her being mad you left- but how selfish can a person be? You moved for a good cause. She needs to get over her little hissy fit.
2006-07-24 14:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by roxylee11782 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out why she's ignoring you and why she's mad at you, but whatever you do, do NOT just blindly apologize. You need to know what's wrong to solve the conflict between the two of you. If you don't know what's wrong but apologize anyways, the problem would still be there and will only resurface. Figure out the reason why she's ignoring you, or just talk to her about it. Phone her and demand an answer.
I had a friend who I was pissed at, and she just blindly apologized without knowing what she did wrong, and that pissed me off even more. She didn't even try and talk to me and find out why I was pissed at her. We're not friends anymore. Don't be like that and lose a friend.
2006-07-24 14:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sifauna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could write or email her and say just what you said, I know everyones life is busy but I still want to be friends with you. I value our friendship. If I have in some way hurt you or offended you , I want you to know that I would never deliberately do anything to hurt you and if I thought I had I would be very sorry. E-mail me at .....anytime.
2006-07-24 14:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by cathyhewed1946 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first ask them why they are mad at you? then you tell them that you are sorry if you did somthing really bad . BUt if thgey are mad at you for somthin that you did not do than tell them and find proof that you did not do that I was inthe same situation listen>(I was emailing my friend Grace that my friend Liz was saying bead things about her and my friend lily . My other freind emilee went on my email address account and GRace emailed me back and said Jess I read that email on how LIz was being a biotch and I did not say that in my email and Emilee thinks I said that so she told my frind LIz and Liz called me and said how could you call me that and canced our plans for sand castle!!! I was so sad I told her that I did not call her that but she did not believe me So emilee checked the email and found out that I did not say that! I said I told you so to LIz . So I said I was sorry fro whatever it was that I did and she frogave me well I hopew this advice ids good!
2006-07-24 14:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to straight up ask her what is going on with her and tell her that in order for this friendship to thrive. Choose your words carefully and don't take an accusatory tone.
2006-07-24 14:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by einelorelei 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just be blunt and say look I am sorry for whatever it was that I did to upset you so much that you wont even talk to me and I hope that you can forgive me.
2006-07-24 14:25:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 22:17:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never say your sorry if you dont know what your saying it for
2006-07-24 14:28:53 · answer #8 · answered by Thom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so why say sorry if u think u did nothing wrong..let it be..maybe sh'es just busy or getting over your moving..give her time..she'll get back to you when sh'es ready :)
2006-07-24 14:28:41 · answer #9 · answered by just me:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why she's not talking to you or just leave her alone. if i were you, i would just ignore her for being so unreasonable.
2006-07-24 14:31:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋