What questions should you ask before getting married?

Answer 1

do you want kids?
what's you fico score?
what are your debts?
what are your assets?
where are the kids you have already, where is the previous spouse?
What do you think about religion (higher power)?
how will we handle holidays? who will we spend holidays with?
do you mind if i have space and time for myself?
will we be moving? will your job make you move?
who pays what?
how is your health? what does the doctor/dentist say about that?
how was your parents' relationship?
.....and a million more!
And ask questions AFTER you get married, too.

Answer 2

Ask any question you can think of. If the male/female is hesitant on answering then they might be hiding something. Take your time before being married but spend as much time with the person as you can so you truly get to know who they are. People try to put their best foot forward in the begining but over time that is to much work to keep up so the true person comes out. That is where that old saying "Actions speak louder than words" has a huge meaning.

Answer 3

A LOT!! You should ask your partner why he/she wants to marry you. You should also ask yourself why you want to marry your partner. You should know his/her views on life, children, finances, etc. You should also talk about where you live and if the situation ever arises to leave "home". There is really so much to ask and know, but really the comfortable truth comes out after marriage most of the time.

Answer 4

There's a great bokk called "Lies at the Alter" by Robin Smith. She goes on Oprah alot and is a psychologist on Oprah. The book seems pretty great. It has all these questions that you HAVE to ask before you get married.

Answer 5

you must ask about kids dose your partner want kids if so how many and also in what time bracket I here to many times that after they are married one want kids and the other does not want kids. Money and things that you both own/ or have say if you have your own car and he has his are you going to have both cars or just one. things like that. animals is also a good point as well. do you both like them do you both like the same type IE dog cats things like that. Don't go into a marriage with past issues these should stay in the past.All should be good and well. good luck.

Answer 6

* What are your top five priorities in life? Pay attention to the answer and really see if you are compatible in that area.
* How do you handle finances; are you the type that saves or spends?
* Do you feel you have a balanced life? If the answer is no ask; Are you trying to find a way balance your life?
* Are you affectionate?
* At what age do you think you will be ready to retire?

Answer 7

Read the book By Dr. Phil McGraw
( Smart love ) hate the author but have to admit his book was great info to read and learn BEFORE marriage.
another idea is PREmarrital counsiling this can help you both understand how important Communication is in a marriage.

Another book is the 5 love languages, By Chapman
AND His Needs, Her needs, By Willard harley Jr.

GREAT INFO

Answer 8

ALL OF THEM!!!!! Don't be afraid to ask anything...get EVERYTHING out in the open if it will matter when you are married. For sure talk about finances. Talk about when children come, talk about family traditions and so on...

Answer 9

Ask yourself : Is this really what I want? Am I going to be happy without this person? Do I love this person enough to accept everything, good or bad?

I hope you made the right decision! Cheers!!

Answer 10

1. are they into marriage and the LIFETIME commitment it involves
2. do they want to have kids
3. what sort of homestyle are they looking for (working, or stay at home)
4. who's paying for this wedding
5. how often are we going to make love

last question actually should be #1