me and my boyfriend been dating for about 4 weeks now but he been given me weird vibz bout our realtinoship like when i call him he alwayz ignore my calls and send me straight to voice mail and everytime he say that is coming over to chill withme something comes up and he lies bout where he be at like one time i asked him to come chill with me and he says that he is over his mother house but when i walk around the block he outside on his porch and one time i called his cell and a girl picked up and when i asked him bout it he said that he told her to answer his fone because he was doing something...im really confused what do you think is going on? HELP!!
2006-07-24 13:44:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he could be and he could not be
maybe he is confused or is having mixed feelings about the relationship or isn't ready for it, you may need to give him some space. but then he could be cheating and is just a very bad lier! so the best thing to do is to talk to him calmly, if you bring up that u think he is cheating, do i gently cuz he will flip and jump to conclusions far away from what you meant. so take it easy and the thats the only thing you can do is talk to him
inless you just want to dump which is another option
good luck
2006-07-24 13:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you suspect him, then it's very likely that he is cheating. Sadly, many girls aren't interested in a guy until he's someone else's boyfriend.
If you still have doubts about him, and want a serious relationship, I would invest in a private investigator just for the added piece of mind. Better safe than sorry.
2006-07-24 13:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is cheatin b/c if he ignores your phone calls and doesn't chill with you then it's b/c he doesn't like you anymore and is spending time with another girl. I think that he gave you a clue that he was cheatin on you when you called him and a girl answered the phone. Hopefully everything goes well for you.
2006-07-24 13:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is ignoring ur calls and lieing to you them sry to say but you need to dump his ***
bcuz a relationship is bout being together and not lieing and it seems as if he is cheating. gurl dump him now b4 you get to attached bcuz he may be just useing you
2006-07-24 13:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by Eleanna Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to break this to you boo, but it sounds like he's cheating to me. But if I were you, I wouldn't even worry about it, ya'll have only been dating 4 weeks.
2006-07-24 13:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by prtybrneyez1081 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he creepin on you ma and yall just been dating for like 4 weeks?...you need to go ahead and get rid of him because it will only get worse, trust me i know.
2006-07-24 14:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if he's cheating, but it definitely sounds like he's lost interest.
Cut your losses and move on... best thing you can do for yourself!
2006-07-24 13:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by hottiewithin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON HE IS USING YOU.
2006-07-24 13:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by browneyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋