I am a christian but have gay feelings. anybody who knows any treatment help me out. I want to remain faithful to God.
2006-07-24 13:13:45 · 10 answers · asked by Chaim 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
For the most part, the American Psychological Association doesn't consider homosexuality a mental disorder or deviance, and most doctors don't consider it a disease. There is not cure or treatment for something that isn't a scientific problem.
The problem you have is not scientific but due to what you've been taught.
While there are many Christian denominations that consider homosexuality a sin, there are some that accept the fact that some of their members happen to be homosexual.
There are indeed many Christian-sponsored organizations and camps that "reprogram" and try to recondition your mind in order to make you "un-gay", but they tend to be surrounded by scandals due to the techniques they use and the rate of their patients returning to their usual lifestyle.
However, there are also Gay Christian groups and ministries out there that would be able to provide support and welcome you if you wish to seek them out.
You can either come to terms with yourself and accept who you are and learn to be happy or you can try to force yourself to change. Whatever you choose, I hope that you manage to ease your mind someday.
2006-07-24 19:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by Orochi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christians assume everyone has those feelings. That's why they say homosexuality is a matter of choice. So it's normal to have such feelings. Just don't act on them if you believe you need to be faithful to God. Good luck with that, by the way.
2006-07-24 13:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by Grist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First. I am not gay. Second God made all of us in his image and likeness. We are all his children. You are OK the way God made you. It was man that put that passage in the bible, because we fear we are homosexuals. The bible also says I can sell my daughter. How much can I get. What is a fair price? The bible is full of errors.
2006-07-24 13:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by cbmw95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no "cure" because there is no problem. If you believe God won't love you because of your sexual orientation, then he is no loving god. He made you that way for a reason.
How can love, even between two people of the same sex be wrong?
2006-07-24 13:18:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mordent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gay, and love it - it's a delightful perversion. The fact that people think it's abnormal makes it all the more exciting.
I think the bible only condemns homosexual activity. Just don't have gay sex, and you're ok.
2006-07-24 13:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with havin homosexual feelings......&& theres no cure because its not a disease.....u can still be urself && remain faithful to god.......he wuld love u either way......u culd b a christian homosexual, theres NOTHING wrong with that.....
2006-07-24 13:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by rika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being homosexual, bisexual, asexual, or pansexual are all normal.
Heterosexuality is something that people are taught, and it is enforced by social norms.
2006-07-24 13:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by bone and liquid fishegg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm dissapointed by you but not about the "god" thing its like your scared of gays you don't have gay feelings your a damn* homophobe
2006-07-24 13:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
god will not allow burden to come to us that we canot bear
2006-07-24 13:20:18 · answer #9 · answered by Raymond B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if youpeopleknow the cure than post it hear please...
2006-07-24 13:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by ilija_91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋