2006-07-24 12:53:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You deal with it.
2006-07-24 12:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We always want what we can't have. It's part of human nature. There isn't really anything you can do. Everything seems to be off when you have someone in your life that you want to be with and aren't able to. Just take it day to day. You never know what FATE has in store for you. Keep your chin up and maybe the one you really love will fall right into your lap. Love is unexpected. When you search you will never find it. But when you finally make the decision to be okay with being alone is when it all falls into place. Fate works funny that way!
2006-07-24 20:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by LaLaKat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask God for peace.
I once thought I found my soul mate in someone who would be inappropriate by age. He was quite a bit older than me. I mean a lot older. Nothing ever happened, but we talked a lot and spent a lot of time just driving around in his car. It was nice to have someone so smart to talk to. I didn't really have anyone like that in my life. I felt so calm around him.
But it really wasn't meant to be. So I distanced my self from him. I was still friends with him, but we weren't close like we had been. I saw other people but was still in touch with him for a few years. Then I met the man who was really meant to be my partner.
Everything in my life fell into place. It was like everything before was holding my breath and now I could breath. But my new man saw a lot of unresolved issues from my past and wanted me to close those doors.
So I told my old friend goodbye. He tried to kind of argue about it. He thought my new guy was being controlling. Actually a lot of people did. But I could see he was trying to do things right by me, when no one else had bothered to before. My old friend asked me "Don't you think he is being a bit controlling?" I think he expected me to say "No". But I said, "Yes...Maybe". "But, I think he is doing right by me and that is a risk I am willing to take. Goodbye, I won't be talking to you anymore." I really missed the friend because we had talked so much before. But more I was happy for all the new changes in my life.
It came down to making a choice. My old life, a road which I had been down, and where I had not been happy. Or risking it with a new life, where things were different but I was with the right guy. I had to be willing to make the gamble.
I bet right. That was more than 5 years ago. I and that "new guy" are happily married now. Living in a new state with better jobs and a bright future.
Sometimes letting something old go is the last thing you have to do to let one chapter close and a new one begin.
Good luck
2006-07-24 20:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal Violet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanting someone you can't have is something that I have been through if you feel there is going to be nothing between you and that person than your feelings start to aren't the same as they were before but if you feel there that there is going to be something between you and the other person then give it a shot tell him/her how you feel you never know he/she might feel the same but was to embarassed to tell you!! But if not Mr.Right is out there don't obsesse over one guy for the rest of your life your'e just going to end up alone!!!
2006-07-24 20:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on immediately. After you do, ask yourself "Why did I think I loved this person?" The answer will identify qualities you might want to look for in other people. Also, ask yourself, "What's missing in my life?" There's often a reason that people fall in unrequited love, and you need to know what it is.
2006-07-24 19:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by Fund Medicine Not War 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to love yourself,and ask Jesus Christ to come Into your life and Lead you Into all truth and understanding.
Love Is not a slang word and please dont let yourself be lead as so many people are.
Look to the word of God and find yourself and read about real love at an early time In your life.
I wish that I did
2006-07-24 19:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your choices are few. 1. Move on and find another, but make sure you are over this one. 2. Stay alone and be sad all your life in waiting for him. 3. Cause a reason he will change his mind or you can cause a change. 4. Just as divorced learn, it takes time to heal. luck..
2006-07-24 20:00:20 · answer #7 · answered by AJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it right now! That person is not important enough for you to lose one more minute of emotion, wasted time, sleep and wasted thoughts about. Find someone who will return your love and be there for you to share the good times and the bad times.
You have only one life to live. They are living their lives. Now you must live yours! Remember that.
2006-07-24 19:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you??? Why would you want to be with someone that you can't have or can't be with??? No one is worth the heartache.
It's hard to move on, but you will get over it eventually, and trust me, when you look back on this someday, you will be grateful you moved on.
2006-07-24 19:58:21 · answer #9 · answered by gipsy_queen99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE ONE DAY YOU WILL HAVE THE PERSON THEY MAY LIKE YOU BUT TO SCARD TO TELL YOU DO THEY KNOW THATS A DIFFRENT STORIE THE SAME GOSE THEY MAY BE SCARD OR THEY JUST TO WANT TO MIX IT UP LOVE A FRIEND SHIP JUST STAY FRIENDS AND ALWAYS BE THERE FOR THE PERSON YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT COULD HAPPEN
2006-07-24 19:57:48 · answer #10 · answered by gidget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure you can never have him then try getting a new crush and forgetting him...but if you are not sure if you can or cannot have him just keep trying...remember if it's meant to be it will happen.
2006-07-24 19:57:46 · answer #11 · answered by SHE'S A DANCING QUEEN ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋