why is it people promise before god and family and later say i dont feel like i love him/her so im going to divorce them. and worse why do people answer with the same garbage? no concerns seem to be given to the childrens lives they are destroying. is this the end of real marriage in this country, has morals been overtaken by the feel good mentality.
a real man is one who does what is right regarless whether or not its fun.
a true lady respects herself and promises and holds to it.
people have so butcherd man and lady terms becuase im seeing to many people only wishing they could be more then little boys and trashy women
just a man needing reassurance that morals still exist in marriage..
2006-07-24 12:37:29 · 7 answers · asked by joe 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
a lil info on me. i am the dumped half of a marriage becuase of feelings, not for anything i did wrong ( even she admitts it)
i have since remarried to a woman who matches my morals step for step and togther our house holds five kids of who the three boys are being raised to be real men and the girls are learning virtue values and self respect and wiil soon be young ladies in the world hopfully all will adopt our value system. ty you all for answering
2006-07-24 12:56:31 · update #1
True one person cannot change the world but many people together can. I am so happy to hear that you hold marriage sacred. It truely is... So all I can say to you is live your life right, marry someone for the right reasons and grow old together. Have lots of children and bring them up in a loving home, show them the right way to live life. Marriage is a challenge, it's not easy and a lot of people today are looking for the easy street to everything. When things get rocky they dump the baggage and move on. That is not God's plan for us. We were put here for family and building relationships. God Bless YOU and hold onto your morals and values. Maybe if enough of us think the right way we may end up taking over with good values and morals. Hang tight and dont let the rest of the world upset you. Follow your heart and lead others by your example. Dont ever be the follower
2006-07-24 12:48:47 · answer #1 · answered by what do you think? 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Morals still do exist in todays world, just not as many. There are good people as well as good marriages too. We have become a product of our society. We are letting kids (18) more rights and younger ones are having sex more and more. This younger generation has a tendancy to rush into things far too quickly and definitely unprepared. The older generations waited to their mid 20s to get married, after college, after military service, etc, when they had most of their wild oats sowed, knew what to expect of life and had some idea of where they were going and in doing so, wished to di it with a lifelong partner. But those were the days of dads working and at home moms ti instill the family values and morals into their children. Now with two wage earner families, no one seems to have time for families anymore. So todays youth grows up faster, not as life wise, most with experiences that were once saved for marriage, trying to set the world on fire. With so much experience at such a young age, what do these kids have to look forward to, tomorrow? True, there are less family value and morals than yesterday, but hopefully there are still enough to turn the world around again before its too late!
2006-07-24 20:07:40 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are amongst the last few men in the world that understands the meaning of "marriage vows". And have your "morals" in tact. That makes you a guy that keeps promises and has integrity. You are a rare breed. Morals and promises still exist, in about 4 out of ten marriages. But only 2 of those 4 marriages, both, husband and wife, practice these qualities. People marry believing," they will live happily ever". When the ruff times hit these marriages, instead of fighting it out and reclaiming your happiness, they quit. The world is full of quitters! No one wants to "work that hard" on anything, except the way they look. Bravo!!! to you, for instilling these qualities in your children. Maybe in their generation, they will understand the vows, promises, and marriage is a combination of hard work, love, respect, and give and take. Quitting is not the option, until everything else fails, after years of work. I believe there are alot of parents out here teaching their children the same thing. But one must "practice what they teach", for them to truly understand.
2006-07-24 20:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with you. I saw your response to that person who is in love with another and see why you put this question here. Marriage should never be taken lightly. I was devastated when my ex wife did that to me. I was in my late 20s. I didn't let go and love again until my late 40s. The fear of getting hurt like that again kept me from being able to have the family I only dreamed of. There is a lot of scum out there today. One has to be very carefull but on the other hand there still are a lot of good Christians out here as well.
2006-07-24 19:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by normy in garden city 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reassurance you can have is through your own life. Make sure you don't become one of those immoral, untrustworthy people. I to believe that marriages should be made to last forever. No one should just walk away due to selfish reasons. Idiocy in the world will never cease to exist. Just worry about your own life, your future, and decisions soon to come.
2006-07-24 19:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by CrimsonStained 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you Joe. I have two daughters and I am raising them this way. May God Bless you and your family always..
2006-07-24 20:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by nativeamericantay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because people donot keep their promises
2006-07-24 20:40:56 · answer #7 · answered by sm_minx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋