me and my boyfriend have been together 4 more then 2 years and i just moved away to texas and the last time i went to LA to see him he got mad tat we didnt do it (after i said we waz)and he said hes never going to trust me ever again (but hello gurls do get there period and i have it tat day)and and said i have broke all the rules in the book (he thinks i cheated on him but i didnt)now i only have one more chance tat if i **** up its over i want him to trust me again but he says he cant bcuz i have lied to him to much and i told him i'll change and i have but he doesnt belive me wat do i do 4 he can love me and trust me again i REALLY love him but i dont no wat to do .... PLEZZZ HELP!!!!!
2006-07-24 12:35:47 · 15 answers · asked by Eleanna Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
don't let him pressure you for sex and you have to EARN his trust back
2006-07-24 12:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel since you moved away he is finding things to complain about to make you feel bad for moving away, and I feel your relationship may end because of the distance between you.
Sorry to say..
And he is selfish and not taking your feelings into consideration.
You have been together more than two years and he is treating you that way already,, oh girl. He is way disrespectful and not giving you a chance.
You need to think about this real good and be honest with your self as hard as it is now you need to regroup your feelings about him.
What rules does he think you broke? He is the one who has broken all the rules by not being understanding about your moving away , he isn't considering your feelings about how much you are missing him and want to be with him.
Hes upset because there was no sex between you that time .
Well what a baby he is ..
Move on with your self and your life. I know it is easier said then done but it can be done . And if you really want your life to be better then move on without him because he will do it to you in given time... and I feel it wont be long on his part.
Take care of your self and be true to your feelings.
2006-07-24 20:22:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is NO way you can get him to trust you over night, it will take time, a lot of time!!! Years maybe! Why doesn't he trust you? Have you cheated before? What did you lie to him about? You should always be upfront & honest with eachother if you are going to make your relationship work. And a side note... long distance relationships are alot harder, he won't be able to trust you. You should just break it off and not put yourself thru the pain and heartbreak. Find a guy close to you & start fresh, and remember NO lies!!! ;)
2006-07-24 19:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by PurpleHaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hon i think your boyfriend sounds pretty immature, and i think you both should sit down and have a serious conversation as to what is going to happen now that you two are far apart, cause i get the feeling that you two aren't gonna last much longer sorry to say, anyhow all the best.
2006-07-24 19:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by diva anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who doesn't respect your sense of People or your sense of Trust doesn't deserve to have you in their life either.
Dump him , immediately. There will always be someone who does care much about you as a person , first.
2006-07-24 19:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey,
hes insecure with himself. See, he doesnt trust himself thats why he feels he cant trust you...if u sit down and talk to him about it...then you'll work it out. prove to him that he can trust you again.
Tara
2006-07-24 19:42:02 · answer #6 · answered by PoPsTaR90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop his sorry butt. Find someone in Texas. He sounds like he's a control freak and, believe me, you DON'T need that in your life.
2006-07-24 20:00:46 · answer #7 · answered by PuttPutt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This dope is interested in sex and sex only. Dump him before you get pregnant. If you do, he will disappear. Find some guy in TX.
Next, get yourself some education.
2006-07-24 19:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by clyde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget it. relationship over. you live too far away and there are too many trust issues already. move on, wish him well and find yourself a texan man.
2006-07-24 19:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by Mike S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HES VERY INSECURE AND I CANT TELL U WHAT TO DO.. BUT HE SOUNDS IMMATURE AND VERY PATHETIC GIRL... TELL HIM TO LEARN ABOUT A WOMEN .. AND I THINK HES VERY MAD AT U BECUSE U MOVED AND HE NEEDS A WAY TO LET THAT ANGER OUT
2006-07-24 19:38:11 · answer #10 · answered by Justice A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in texas. get yourself a real nice cowboy. see the only reason he is yelling all that **** is because he obviously has something to hide...... think about it girl
2006-07-24 19:40:21 · answer #11 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋