I just quit working for my sister. Her boyfriend keeps making passes at me. I kept telling her I don't want him there when I babysit and she wont listen. Yesterday he came in the house with a pickle he had bought. He said look at my pickle. Its a big pickle huh. I looked over at the pickle and he was holding it like a d!@k. I was grossed out. He then asked me to look at his pickle again. I refused to. He kept asking me to look at it and said I have a big one. I got the biggest pickle. Its hot too. I was discussed. He is always touching me and over me and trying to get close to me. One day I was trying to show him something on my computer and gay porn popped up. I tried to take it off quickly and he said no, let it play. I said, h@!! no! He then asked me why do I have white guys on my porn. I said I like them. He said why dont I date black guys. I told him because I dont want to. He patted me on my a$$ and she saw. She said dont be touching my brothers a$$. She didnt want to hear why.
2006-07-24 12:33:17 · 14 answers · asked by doldemite 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Good for you that you quit working. He's abusing you and she's off in her own little world. You stand your ground and do as you feel is right. Good for you.
2006-07-24 12:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by ninusharra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're blaming your sister for her boyfriend's behaviour? Sounds to me like he's the one being stupid, not her. Sure, she should take the harrassment you are going through more seriously! No doubt about that!
But this guy is no good for either of you! What he is doing is immoral and illegal. Just because he's a scumbag doesn't make her weak. It makes her judgement bad.
Sit down with your sister, tell her what going on, and let her know, you or him!
Good luck!
2006-07-24 20:03:03 · answer #2 · answered by mithril 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women are weak because they think that the person that they are with will change in some way, when in fact some men are just never gonna chnage the way they are.
2006-07-24 19:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time he comes over, pick up the phone act like you're dialing and pretend you're telling dispatch you want to report a rape. If he still stands there give his name and all that you know about him.
2006-07-24 21:31:36 · answer #4 · answered by midnightdealer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not weak, she's just too insecure and afraid to be alone to see her boyfriend is a big asshole.
Too bad. There's NO reason to put up with that crap. I just hope he isn't bringing home disease and all his other babies.
You need to deck him. Maybe then she'll want to hear why you hit him.
2006-07-24 19:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by Lori A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some women will accept ANY behavior from a man just to be able to say they have a man.
2006-07-24 19:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are some men weak? They just need to grow a back bone and you should help them!
2006-07-24 19:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by princeessintraning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are blind like that. Some of us actaully do listen to our family.
2006-07-24 19:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by Meg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be more assertive. the next time he wont take no for an answer do Something about it. punch him, kick him, smack him, do somethin, he'll get the message
2006-07-24 19:37:56 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all women r weak
2006-07-24 19:35:32 · answer #10 · answered by Lion 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋