what would you do in this situation?

Question

i have two younger sisters. 14 and 16. i just found out that the 14 yrs old is having sex. my older sister(26), my husband and i(25 and 24) are very upset and know the right thing to do would be to tell my parents who have no idea what they are doing. i know it is in the 14 yr old best interest to tell my parents so she does not ruin her life by getting pregnant at such and early age or getting an STD. I love them to death but they are going to hate me for a long time for betraying their trust. we are best friends but i know have to look out for them if my parents cant see what they are doing. what would you do in the situation?

Answer 1

omg gurl that's i hard situation just talk to her if doesn't listen u should tell ur parents probably they will hate u but just think if u dint and one they find out that she is pregnant or have std think about how bad u feel and if u dint tell ur parents and they will find out that u knew they will really get disappointed on u and think that u dont love ur sisters but first talk to ur sister and encourage her to stop tell what can be the consequenses well i wish really good luck

Answer 2

I agree with highloyo. You should try to talk to her/them first. If you betray their trust, they may not go to you when they really need you. And God knows who they'll turn to then. I'd sit them down, and make them fully aware that you are serious and concerned. The truth of the matter is, they are going to have sex if they truly want to. No matter how strict parents can be, when there is a will, there is a way. So, educate them! Tell them how carelessness now can ruin their lives FOREVER with a teenage pregnancy, AIDS, etc FOREVER. Talk about birth control. Make a doctor appointment for them. And bring your older sister along for support also. They need to know what a serious issue this.

Answer 3

Your sister may not like you for a while, but she will be thankful in the future. If you tell your parents maybe they can put her on birthcontrol or something, cause you cant shelter a kid forever, they do go to school. But think about it, would you rather her be mad at you or catch an STD or worse, AIDS? I am 20 myself with a 14 year old sister, that I am thankful I don't have to make this decision yet, but maybe you should talk to your sister and convience her to tell them, and be there for support.

Answer 4

First of all, if your sister confided in you and you tell your parents, be prepared for her not to trust you for a long long long time. I understand as her older sister you're concerned but you need to be careful you don't lose her. If I were you I'd sit her down and talk to her about prtection, pregnancy and STDS. Explain about the pill and condoms and other methods of protection. That way, she'll feel like she can trust you and will be more likely to come to you with other issues. Atleast if she does that, you'll know whats going on in her life and you can help her out.

Answer 5

I would just stay out of it. If she's having sex, tell her to use protection all the time. Hopefully, she's only having sex with her boyfriend (if she has one), and not just with random people. If you tell her (your) parents, she will more than likely rebel and get into more promiscuous things. And if not, then she's a good kid. It's not a big deal that she's having sex. If she's using protection, it's better. But, if you think that it's really upsetting and not good for you sister to be having sex right now, then tell your parents. If you are just upset because she is your little sister, then stay out of it.

Answer 6

Who Carez If Ur Sister Gets Mad At U.....Ur Just Doin Wat A Good Sister Do....Watchin Out For Her Just Tell Ur Parents....Pull Dem To The Side And Tell Em Den Pull Ur Sister She Gotta Admit It Sooner Or Later But Before She Makes Da Biggest Mistake Of Her Life....In Mi Opinion U Should Tell Ur Mom And Dad......Good Luck! And Hope Everything Goes Well!

Answer 7

I would tell my parents. Your sister may be mad at you for telling but you are doing whats best for her in the long run. If your parents choose to do nothing about the information that you give them than that's their fault but at least you did the right thing by looking out for your sister.

Answer 8

If I found out my little sister was having sex I would tell our mother. If you and your younger sisters are as close as you say they are then you owe it to them to tell your parents. Honestly, as their elder (and therefore 'protector') you need to stick up for them by telling your parents. They will think that you aren't doing the right thing, but they will thank you in the end. Good luck and God bless you on your journey.

Answer 9

dont tell her parents try to sit her down ur self and talk to her then if u think she still does it after u gave her a stern tzalkin then i would have to tell her parents but remeber in the end she will always love u no matter how much she says she doesnt she will be thank full for not getting pregant or having stds

Answer 10

I have little sister as well. I guess I would give them some time to tell my parents, and if she didn't after a certain time, I would tell her that I would tell our parents. If that didn't convince her to bring it up herself. I would probably bring up the subject with her and my parents together. Then she would know that I hadn't broken her trust but that I would not support her bad behaviour.

Answer 11

dont try to be their friend right now. they need someone to be looking out for their best intrests, and if the parents arent aware of what is going on that person needs to be you. Just tell your parents. They will get over the fact that they are mad at you.