she wont take me to get a test!?

Question

im about ten days from my missed period and my mother said that if it doesnt come by the end of the week then she'll take me to the clinic
but im gettin even more stressed out everyday...**secret: im only THIRTEEN
and i cannot take not knowing if im pregnant or not its sad but its true that im too young
how can i rush her to take me to the clinic without actually RUSHING her??? i dont wanna get on her nerves or nothin like that but this is really bothering me!!

ive had these symptoms:

-->>moodiness
-->>breast tenderness/soreness
-->>no period
-->>nausea
-->>tiredness
-->>bloating

idk if its stress or wat but.........ugh
how can i push her to take me to get one?? plz help

Answer 1

you are pregnent
what were you doing having sex at thirteen!!!!!?????

Answer 2

I would continue to wait.... I'm sure your mother is just as concerned and anxious to know as you are but she also understands that it takes a while for pregnancy hormones to show up in the blood stream and urine so this may be her reason for waiting a little longer. If you have enough money you can also purchase a pregnancy test to find out now as your symptoms do sound like you may be pregnant. Sometimes when we are very worried about a pregnancy we can trick our own bodies into believing it so much we start to experience the symptoms even missing a period for a few days. Hopefully this will be the case but if you have been sexually active the possibility is great. Your mother has her reasons for waiting... listen to her.

Answer 3

i think your mums just scared of a result and is just hoping that your periods come along, you are extremely young and you never know she's probably more scared than u are of being pregnant. i know u understand u are young so if u are not preggers then i hope u can take this a a warning and stop having sex because not only can babies come from sex but so can diseases. im sure u know that... my advice would be to wait as well you say you are stressed out, well sometimes that can hold your periods off for alot longer than ten days. it does sound like u might be pregnant though. maybe u should say to your mum. " i'll wait as long as 15 days (e.g) than i want to go to the doctor, if u can agree to a time to wait until u won't stress so much.

Answer 4

omg your probably not pregnant because i get those symptoms every time im on my period!!!
my period is not regular and has not been for 5 years no big deal, and doctors say that most peoples periods dont become regular untill at least 2 years after your first one. dont worry. and if you do really want to go to the clinic have someone else drive you, your parent doesnt have to be there for you to get a test.

Answer 5

Stress can make you late for your period. So can a slew of other things. Maybe this is you mother's way of punishing you or trying to teach you how to be an adult. As an adult, you need patience, and since you are sexually active at such a young age, she is probably super disappointed that you think you are mature enough to handle such a relationship. You can't even drive yourself to the store to get a prego test..whoa! Anyway, not judging, just noticing. One week isn't going to kill you...

Answer 6

It's just a few more days. Try to relax. If you are NOT PG you may be causing your period to stay away because you are so stressed out. It's good that you can talk to your mom and that she will take you for the test. Does she know when your period was due and how late you are?

Answer 7

Girl- you shouldn't be having sex without a condom "and don't tell me u used one unless it broke..

now you need to relax-any girl any age or for that matter you can be in your 20''s & 30's stress will cause your period to go wakko..
Plus your only thirteen-did you have sex 10-14 days into your cycle - if you know your cycle 21 to 28 days that would be a norm. If you don't know your cycle you shouldn't be having sex..
OK ill stop harping..

Your mom just wants to see if its stress or not .it can be normal to skip a WHOLE period when your that age..

Yes your stressing- but don't worry about it till after you have the test-(if you don't start by then)

Answer 8

Check your area for a planned parenting office, they will give you a test and it can be done with out parents. Honey I hope your not and please remember if your not old enough to take on the responsibility of a baby your not old enough to do what you do to make a baby no matter how much you are being pressured into it, but I'm sure your mom has already lectured you so I won't. I hope there is a planned parenting office near you they can help with this and so much more. Best of luck.

Answer 9

Why don't you just go to Wal-Mart or some other store that sells HPTs and get one of them! You could get someone else to take you if your mom won't do it! They can cost anywhere from $8-$20! They even have some at the Dollar Store if you don't have that much money! I hope everything works out for you...

That's the only thing I can think of if your mom won't take you to the clinic...

Answer 10

You can ask mom again and tell her how upset you are and knowing the answer one way or another will help you feel less stress.You also can buy a pregnancy test at your drug store and test yourself at home they are not that expensive,maybe you can have a friend with you for help and support...or ask another adult that you trust to help you. I was a pregnant teen at 15 and i know how scared you are..if you are not pregnant please get some birth control...you are too young to worry about this...you need to be a teenager and have fun,that doesnt have to include having sex,believe me i know.

Answer 11

It sounds like your period is just late. Since you're 13 this is pretty normal, but if you're really worried u can go to the pharmacy & get a home pregnancy test and do it on your own.

PS. stressing out makes your period late, so try & relax.