2006-07-24 12:15:21 · 18 answers · asked by clair 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have not had sex with this person but I am just in love with him. He just treats me like a princess. And he is such good natured person....
2006-07-24 12:23:46 · update #1
If you don't have kids....go for it....If you have kids....keep them in mind when you make the decision to leave your man....and also think to yourself long and hard before you make this decision....1. Is he single? 2. Does he love you too? 3. Is what you feel love? or just the need for change. 4. Are you in a rough spot in your current relationship? if so wait till that blows over and things are good b4 you make this decision...it might not be that bad 5. Will you be ok financially?
-If he is in a relationship with someone else....and is gonna leave them for you and you are going to leave your husband....Would he leave you for another women when she comes along?
Just make a informed decision and think of everyone involved and make sure that you will be happy in the long run with this decision....make sure to not only think with your heart but think with your head too....and make sure its really your heart that your listening to and not your (below the belt)
2006-07-24 12:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by Summertime 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you made your bed I think you should stay put in it. I don't believe in jumping the fence because the pasture on the other side appears to be greener. If you have other issues in your relationship that warrant divorce then that's a different story. I feel that anyone that leaves their spouse for another are the dirtiest of dirtbags. I got hurt that way and it took over 20 years for me to finally let go and love once more. My marital vows are very sacred to me. Probably some bells and whistles blind sided you while you were being unfaithfull.
2006-07-24 12:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by normy in garden city 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He should not have such a relationship with you knowing you are married. He does not understand the concept of respect for another man.
2006-07-24 21:18:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love him and i mean truly love him... There is no need become a cheater so just leave your husband and start a new life with this other man.. But for your sake i hope you don't end up like my ex.. She left me for another man that she said she was in love with.. Then 4 months later she found out that he was not what she thought and the so called love was gone.. and i would not have her back.. so now she is alone!!!! So think long and hard before you jump..
2006-07-24 13:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by nclonewolf1962 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You made a commitment to you husband, now you have to honor it. Dumping your guy because you found someone else is what you when you're dating. After you're married, you're supposed to move past that.
If you feel there's something lacking in your marriage, call it off with the other guy and work on your relationship with your husband.
2006-07-24 13:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by rainfingers 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone else then you need a divorce.Don't play with people hurt because you will end up getting burned.Move on and hopefully this man your in love with feel the same for you.
2006-07-24 12:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by missmadhatter 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That means you married the one you DO NOT LOVE for another reason.......
What reason or reasons did you marry this man:
(a) Was it money and security ??
(b) Was there any pressure from your parents to marry him ??
(c) The planned parenting program(accident) failed ??
(d) The one you loved was not ready to commit yet ??
2006-07-24 12:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by belledejourdenoir 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bummer.
2006-07-24 12:18:22 · answer #8 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get over it......... you promised before god and family to forsake all others and now your cheating on your husband, whether or not your having sex. somone once said if you treat your spouse like you really love them , one day youll wake up and youll be in love with them. i personally think you want somone to say its ok to leave and youll find plenty of people saying you have a right to be happy, but those are the same people that would cheat just becuase they "feel" like it. its time to revisit your love for him and find out why you loved him enough to make the promise in the first place. and if you have children for god sakes ignore those feel good answers becuase your children dont deserve to have their family destroy becuase your being selfish... im sorry if you took this answer as harsh but your family and husband dont deserve this. i wish you the best of luck in deciding to do what is right not what is fun or exciting.....
2006-07-24 12:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by joe 4 · 2⤊ 4⤋
Yes, I am a married woman and am in love with someone else...a woman...My husbands girlfriend and hey IT WORKS!!!
2006-07-24 12:20:07 · answer #10 · answered by mapleeyes 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋