My friend asked if i could hang out with her and i said ya then a few days later she said that she couldn't hang out that day. And i said okay. So we made plans for the next week, but now she says she can't make it AGAIN! Is she blowing me off or am i overeacting???
2006-07-24 12:10:42 · 22 answers · asked by Bee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you're overreacting. Give her one more chance, after all, she's the one making plans with you and then breaking them. Give her the benefit of the doubt. :)
2006-07-24 12:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by xcelix 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may just be a busy girl but I would ask her if everything is okay.
Ask her if something important came up or if there is anything you can help her with so the two of you can hang out more.
I wouldn't take it too personally though, she may have had something come up that she couldn't miss.
2006-07-24 19:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by melspags6 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask her what was up. Do this in a nice way, so she doesn't take offense. That way, if she isn't trying to blow you off, she won't be upset but understand your concern. On the other hand, if she is just blowing you off, you might want to look around for a new friend.
2006-07-24 19:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by PuttPutt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why she is bailing. You could be over reacting or she could really be blowing you off. Just talk to her about it. And think about the excusses that she is using. If they sound like they are made up off the top of her head as her about it but if they sound like something that is real just try and make plans again..
2006-07-24 19:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by Andi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur probably overreacting. she wouldnt tell u that she wanted to hang out with u just so that she could blow u off. talk to her and tell her how u feel and im sure she has a good reason for not being able to hang out.
2006-07-24 19:13:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's blowing you off but you may be overreacting.Listen to what she has to say first, catch her by surprise and ask her if she waits a moment to answer and if there is hesitation in her voice she is surely blowing you off!!!
2006-07-24 19:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by scorpion prince89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, she is still ur freind no mater what. Ask her whats up. If she doesnt want to talk about it, then force her too. If she really doenst want to talk about it then you know it's a personal problem at home. Chances are she has a boyfriend.....lol.
2006-07-24 19:15:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should really talk to her probably something is going on ask her whats wrong why she cant hang out with u anymore
2006-07-24 19:13:38 · answer #8 · answered by andrea_lara92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her why she could not make it. Then tell her when she wants to get together let you know. Give her the benefit of duot
2006-07-24 19:15:47 · answer #9 · answered by shariecollins2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her before u jump 2 conclusions
2006-07-24 19:14:55 · answer #10 · answered by HOTn'SWEET 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋