2006-07-24 12:04:57 · 20 answers · asked by maggie R 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I think you were jealous.
2006-07-24 12:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, loosing a child isn't easy at all. I understand where your friend is coming from. I used to see pregnant ladies and feel actualy hatered toward them for the simple fact that they were pregnant and I wasn't. I had 2 miscarriages and 1 still birth, so I understand the feelings of loss that she experienced. More then likely, when you got pregnant she was a little jealous, but just because she got pregnant again doesn't mean that is the reason she decided to have a baby again. It's so hard to look at a woman, much less a friend, who is pregnant when you have just suffered a horrible loss. Be supportive of her and don't hold it against her. She needs you more then you know right now.
2006-07-24 19:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by odd duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if she is jealous. But I know that I had a miscarriage in march and Have been trying since to concieve and in the middle of all this my husbands cousin and his wife found out they were expecting. It does kindof make me upset because I was really excited and then I lost the baby and then like a few days later they announced they were pregnant it made me cry. I am very happy for them but Ive been trying to concieve before they even thought about it!
2006-07-24 19:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by liladams22805 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, why would you think that? Maybe she got pregnant because she wants a baby, then she miscarried. Doesn't mean that she wanted to give up forever. She just wanted to take a break and then try again. Cut her some slack.
2006-07-24 19:16:22 · answer #4 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She absolutely did not get pregnant out of jealousy. After a miscarriage, a woman is given a time by her doctor when she can start trying to get pregnant again. Chances more than likely were around the same time.
Be a good friend, and be happy for her - as she is happy for you.
2006-07-24 19:56:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you just a unthoughtful selfish bit*h to ask that?
How RUDE!!
You're friend had a miscarriage and then YOU got pregnant...it's sounds as if YOU WERE the one who was jealous since YOU technically got pregnant AFTER her first miscarriage....DUH IDIOT.
2006-07-24 19:08:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think she did it purposely but whenever someone has a miscarriage specially if that baby was wanted its really hard to actually feel happy for someone else--I know it sounds weird and mean but its the truth....it happened to me..maybe she just waned to feel the same joy u were feeling.
2006-07-24 19:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by martha95355 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't think so. I went through a miscarriage a few months ago and we are pregnant again. As soon as you lose a child, you want to try again as soon as possible.
2006-07-24 19:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think that's jealous! she wanted a baby as much as you did, why not be happy for her, i don't understand, what kinda friend are you! you should want to have your kids around the same time if yall really friends, that's mean to say, since she lost a baby, you better hope you keep yours, and ask for, forgiveness for your mean thoughts!!!
2006-07-24 19:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by ti'lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be so excited for eac h other your going to have kids together around the same time and your dwelling on the fact of who is jealous of who?? your going to get to raise your kids together that should be exciting
2006-07-24 20:36:10 · answer #10 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miscarriages can be hard on a woman, and all involved, it is a possibility she was jealous, but I wouldn't think so though.
2006-07-24 19:11:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anayamama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋